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usonian

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10. Homes are endless worry to own.
Fri May 16, 2025, 02:39 AM
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I am a handy person and I worry, mainly because people are so spread out here and help is hard to find.

When I bought the place, all the well gear was exposed to the weather and was just under a tarp. Ants got into the pressure switch, and fried. I had to clean it regularly. And parts froze. So I was constantly checking. It's 500 feet away and about 100 ft. climb back. I had a 2wd pickup and never drove the unpaved incline. I lucked out in getting a contractor to build a well house with heat tapes Christmas week. I fled to my daughter's apartment for the duration of the work and was pretty shaken. I later had a backup generator installed, using the home's propane tank.

Storms would separate ends of gutters from the fascia. I thought I solved it with L-brackets and epoxy but they let go. So this year, I put in big wooden end caps to support those ends and block the wind. Time will tell.

And one evening, the valve on the propane tank started leaking ( This is REALLY serious stuff) and the on-call propane guy came out to tighten it, along with the fire department. They replaced the tank very shortly after.

I have tools at the ready, but only for small things. I brought a lot of power tools with me to do home repair, but needed a home large enough to hold all the tools. Chicken and egg problem.

I should rent at my age, but worry about not feeling in control.

Working on it!



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Permission to vent, please. [View all] hamsterjill Friday OP
You aren't wrong to worry Easterncedar Friday #1
Thank you. Yes, the constant battle is right. hamsterjill Friday #4
Seems perfectly normal to me radical noodle Friday #2
Thanks for that information. hamsterjill Friday #5
You do your best radical noodle Friday #7
Thank you. hamsterjill Friday #8
It can't be helped. sprinkleeninow Friday #3
Thank you. hamsterjill Friday #6
I was remiss in expressing how much I honor sprinkleeninow Friday #9
Homes are endless worry to own. usonian Friday #10
Goodness, you've been through a lot. hamsterjill Friday #13
If I were nearby, I'd help! usonian Friday #14
Aw, thanks! I appreciate that sentiment. Too bad you're not next door. I give you a glass of iced tea! hamsterjill Friday #15
I'm in the Sierra Nevada foothills. usonian Friday #16
That sounds like a lovely place. hamsterjill Friday #17
Who wouldn't be stressed? SheltieLover Friday #11
You might be interested in listening Danascot Friday #12
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