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TygrBright

(21,390 posts)
13. Lucky, I won't go into why I believe this - this is not about me. But...
Tue May 19, 2026, 01:07 PM
20 hrs ago

...I believe you not only helped man in pajamas, you made a difference that no one else could have or would have made.

We are stuck in time, here, so we imagine 'past' and 'future', and think that the one is gone forever and the other may never be what we want. Our brains are made to perceive linear sequence.

So you imagine that being there for man in pajamas to help (your first quantum gift to him) ended after the water started going down. And that driving him to/from his procedure and being there for him (another quantum gift) ended when the surgery ended and he was back home.

And your care in checking on him and being friends (more quantum gifts) ended when he decided to end his pain.

I tell you this, and believe it with every fiber of what and who I am: LOVE IS NEVER "OVER". It never "stops". It has no past and no future. Acts of love are quantum gifts, where we recognize and exchange humanity with one another, and do homage to the Divine Within, and they endure forever. They are more deeply significant than our linear brains can ever understand.

You are a bright light burning in the heart of man in pajamas, and he is a bright light in your heart. Now and in eternity, beyond time, in a quantum experience that all life shares and makes and gives.

Everything you write in this post is a quantum gift to me, and I reverence it, and you.

Thank you.

lovingly,
Bright

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8 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Something is on my mind today. [View all] LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago OP
That's beautiful, Lucky. Thank you for spreading the message! erronis 21 hrs ago #1
You did a very good job, you can't save everybody. And grief is built-in with life. Walleye 21 hrs ago #2
((❤️‍🩹)) Hugs for your hurting heart. I read your post as a selfless man reflecting on life's challenges Deuxcents 21 hrs ago #3
Empathy lives. cachukis 21 hrs ago #4
Lucky Charms what a touching piece you've written. 1WorldHope 21 hrs ago #5
🥰 ♥️ 🥰 a kennedy 21 hrs ago #6
Something Krasnov will never learn. gab13by13 21 hrs ago #7
OMG LuckyCharms, what a beautiful post Grim Chieftain 21 hrs ago #8
Yup, to it all. Peace and good health. Big respect. Magoo48 21 hrs ago #9
gentle 🫂 to you and yours, Mr. LuckyCharms. mwmisses4289 20 hrs ago #10
That made me cry... bsiebs 20 hrs ago #11
I hope you're feeling a whole lot better very soon, Lucky. Harker 20 hrs ago #12
Lucky, I won't go into why I believe this - this is not about me. But... TygrBright 20 hrs ago #13
Now I have tears in my eyes PatSeg 20 hrs ago #14
This message was self-deleted by its author PatSeg 20 hrs ago #15
That was way deeper than your brief interactions with him IbogaProject 20 hrs ago #16
Your post is beautiful and heartfelt, Thank you Lucky for sharing your heart and soul with us. Love, Deb debm55 20 hrs ago #17
There are good people in this messy world Bumbles 20 hrs ago #18
Seems like you understand the Inner and the Outer. chouchou 20 hrs ago #19
You did the best you could have for "Pajama Man". He, no doubt, had demons LoisB 20 hrs ago #20
Thank you LuckyCharms, so very well said! JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #21
The very wonderful thing about facing one's mortality is that... NNadir 20 hrs ago #22
Beautiful post.. mountain grammy 19 hrs ago #23
Sharing that story is a way of paying it forward... Moostache 19 hrs ago #24
What a wonderful post, thank you for sharing the moving story of pajama man. Goodness does exist appalachiablue 18 hrs ago #25
Did anyone ever tell you True Dough 18 hrs ago #26
So very touching, Lucky Charms. HeartsCanHope 17 hrs ago #27
Kindness is my religion rambler_american 17 hrs ago #28
Ouch SuzyandPuffpuff 17 hrs ago #29
Good advice, always biophile 17 hrs ago #30
My dear friend, holding you in love and light, sending vibes to ease niyad 16 hrs ago #31
First of all... I want to say that I'm sorry that you're not feeling well, Lucky Niagara 16 hrs ago #32
Wow. Irish_Dem 16 hrs ago #33
We love you, LC. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 15 hrs ago #34
I hope you know markie 15 hrs ago #35
I'm sure you've done your best in this life. Figarosmom 15 hrs ago #36
You did good by your friend cate94 15 hrs ago #37
Hold On ms.pamela 15 hrs ago #38
Thank you for the story, and the truths. yellow dahlia 13 hrs ago #39
Do not harbor regrets. I'm guilty of that and it rips you apart. sprinkleeninow 12 hrs ago #40
Thank you so much for this, LuckyCharms! calimary 12 hrs ago #41
Wow, thank you, Lucky. A-Schwarzenegger 11 hrs ago #42
Hugs (((Lucky))) ❣️ IcyPeas 11 hrs ago #43
Sad story, LC. OAITW r.2.0 11 hrs ago #44
Ah been tryin' to tell ... oldsoldierfadingfast 10 hrs ago #45
"If you want to feel better...make others feel better, and bask in the glow of the fact that you did a good job." RVN VET71 10 hrs ago #46
Incredible story.. Permanut 10 hrs ago #47
You did ... oldsoldierfadingfast 10 hrs ago #48
Lucky, you are a good 'un. summer_in_TX 10 hrs ago #49
"I've made mistakes, but overall, I'm happy with the life I have lived." hamsterjill 10 hrs ago #50
You let him know someone cared, and that had to mean a lot FullySupportDems 9 hrs ago #51
Thank you LC lonely bird 1 hr ago #52
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