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LuckyCharms

(20,932 posts)
Sun Oct 5, 2025, 03:47 PM Oct 5

My beautiful mother passed 13 years ago this week. [View all]

My grandmother (father's mother) passed on Valentine's Day. My normally cheerful dad would go into a funk around every Valentine's Day.

My mom passed a few days before my birthday. I have not been able to enjoy a birthday ever since. This is a sad time of year for me.

She was a strong woman. Grew up poor with an alcoholic father who beat her. Until one day, she held his pistol to his head as he was falling asleep drunk. She told him that she would put a bullet in his head the next time he laid a hand on her. He never hit her again.

My dad, her husband, died when she was 51 (I was 11). She suffered from crippling depression from the day he died until she passed. In spite of that, she got me through my teen years. I tried to model her strength and character.

She was well-loved by all. I'm a soon to be 67 year old man who is missing his mother today. I'll miss her forever. Here's to you Mary...they broke the mold after you were created. I'll see you again someday.





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How lucky you both were to have each other, my dear LuckyCharms . . . CaliforniaPeggy Oct 5 #1
She looks like True Dough Oct 5 #2
The dress looks like angel wings. Irish_Dem Oct 5 #6
Here's to Mary and you, LuckyCharms. choie Oct 5 #3
I am truly sorry for your loss, Kim. LuckyCharms Oct 5 #4
Celebrate the memories malaise Oct 5 #5
Your mother is exquisite and the dress is stunning. Irish_Dem Oct 5 #7
I don't know anything about the dress... LuckyCharms Oct 5 #8
Your mother had courage and beauty. greatauntoftriplets Oct 5 #9
Thank you for sharing your Mother with us. May her memory be a blessing irisblue Oct 5 #10
If we survive, we leave so many loved ones behind Marthe48 Oct 5 #11
Thank you very much ,LuckCharms for sharing your loving and beautiful mother with us. May her memories be a blessing to debm55 Oct 5 #12
What a beautiful ode to your Mom LuckyCharms JMCKUSICK Oct 5 #13
she really does look like an angel Skittles Oct 5 #14
LuckyCharms, thank you for this family history. bronxiteforever Oct 5 #15
Take comfort from the wonderful memories she left you with Grim Chieftain Oct 5 #16
I am glad that you have loving memories of her. Collimator Oct 5 #17
Thank you for sharing your memories and trusting us with your story. yellow dahlia Oct 5 #18
What a heartfelt and lovely tribute to your beautiful mother, Lucky Niagara Oct 5 #19
Niagara... LuckyCharms Oct 5 #25
What a byoot BaronChocula Oct 5 #20
I'm sorry for your losses, Baron. LuckyCharms Oct 5 #26
She was a beautiful woman 70sEraVet Oct 5 #21
What a gorgeous portrait! calimary Oct 5 #22
Thinking of you LittleGirl Oct 5 #23
I'm very sorry for your loss. Same thing with my brother who... LuckyCharms Oct 5 #24
Thanks LittleGirl Oct 5 #27
Remember this... LuckyCharms Oct 5 #29
Your mother was beautiful. There is kindness, sadness, and strength in her eyes; a sweetness LoisB Oct 5 #28
🌸 Donkees Oct 5 #30
You are so lucky to have had a loving mother, LC. Your Mom Clouds Passing Oct 5 #31
Thamk you for this post LuckyCharms, your Mom is beautiful. And I believe I have seen this lovely c-rational Oct 5 #32
What a lovely photo of her, LC! electric_blue68 Oct 5 #33
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