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3. Why does anyone want to buy jewelry? Is it to impress other people? And then there are people who spend money they
Mon Jul 13, 2026, 04:52 PM
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can't afford or go into debt to buy jewelry or cars to impress other people. As for me, If I like someone, I don't want or need to impress them. It was only people that I, deep down didn't like, that I felt I needed to impress.

After I figured that out, I stopped buying expensive cars, clothing or whatever. My car is a utilitarian Hyundai Elantra and it gets me from point A to point B just as good as any Beemer or Ferrari on the road.

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Perhaps the closing of that mine will encourage the folks who make lab diamonds. CaliforniaPeggy Monday #1
There's no reason to buy a mined diamond anymore. yardwork Monday #2
Why does anyone want to buy jewelry? Is it to impress other people? And then there are people who spend money they 3Hotdogs Monday #3
Slight possibility that jewelry buyers GenThePerservering Monday #4
What's to like about 'em? 3Hotdogs Monday #6
In ancient times BumRushDaShow Monday #9
They're shiny, and JoseBalow Monday #10
What I like about them: they decorate my face and they are beautiful in their own right. ...n/t CaliforniaPeggy Monday #14
It improves my appearance LeftInTX Tuesday #34
I agree w/ your sentiment! It's like that 'look at me, look at all of my diamonds, look at my expensive car, look, SWBTATTReg Monday #8
Goddess forfend that we should find a moment of joy and beauty niyad Tuesday #24
This! electric_blue68 Tuesday #27
Because they're pretty, artistic, interestingly designed etc electric_blue68 Monday #12
As do I. And for years, I worked with, and represented, jewelry makers niyad Tuesday #25
You've made your own? What have you done? electric_blue68 Tuesday #28
Just some simple pieces, several necklaces, pins, and bracelets. niyad Tuesday #31
Cool! getting sleepy will add more tomorrow electric_blue68 Tuesday #32
Sweet dreams! niyad Tuesday #33
Nice! Oooo, crystals! .... electric_blue68 22 hrs ago #37
Why? Because a piece is beautiful, or makes us happy, for starters. niyad Tuesday #23
different strokes for different folks purr-rat beauty Tuesday #36
Definitely the case Bluetus Monday #13
I have a lab-grown diamond, too. It's beautiful. No need to every buy a new diamond. Liberty Belle Monday #21
orher than use for grinding, why bother with diamonds WorseDayEver Monday #5
Diamonds are not and never were rare. They just did a super amazing job of marketing. Raftergirl Monday #7
Actually, the control of the distribution is what drove rarity and price mdbl Monday #15
But not because diamonds are actually rare. De Beers limited the mining solely to be able to sell diamonds as Raftergirl Monday #17
Bingo ! When the mines in Kimberly were first being worked, even working-class couples were buying huge diamond eppur_se_muova Monday #22
Wow TY electric_blue68 Tuesday #29
My husband and I don't have rings. Envirogal Monday #11
Rings are symbols. But if you don't like them, then don't wear them. CaliforniaPeggy Monday #16
It's beautiful and authentic artwork FakeNoose Monday #18
Thanks so much, my dear FakeNoose! CaliforniaPeggy Monday #19
Lovely!.... electric_blue68 Tuesday #30
Rings are not the only kinds of jewelry out there. niyad Tuesday #26
"To save cash" as if it didn't have EXCESSIVE funds just sitting in numbers accounts... what a crock WorseDayEver Monday #20
they are trying to gain control on prices. nt Javaman Tuesday #35
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