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usedtobedemgurl

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15. My husband passed after a two year battle with cancer.
Fri Oct 10, 2025, 06:04 AM
Friday

Since then, lights have flickered, the radio turns on by itself, my dog will bark in a friendly way at nothing, like he is answering someone calling his name or talking to him. When I drive his car, it has always had the same temperature on both sides of the car, unless the passenger changes it. Otherwise, whatever the driver sets their side at, the other side mirrors it. His passenger side has stayed different since he left.

Yesterday my electronics started going g crazy. My phone kept going to different pages even when I had not pressed anything. This has happened several times since his death.

The thing that freaked me out yesterday was his high boy. A few days ago I cleared it out. I took most of the stuff to Goodwill. I kept some shirts, because a friend us making a quilt for me. Last night I open up the drawers to put my clothing in there. There was a shotgun shell in the drawer. We do not own a shotgun. He has never owned a gun if any type. I am positive it was it there when I cleared out the dresser. I do not know if he is trying toward me if danger - he was afraid his family would try to come after his estate. I do not know if it is a message of some kind - I habe been asking him for help to try and find some of his money, but I cannot figure out what a shell would have to do with that. Just then, this post submitted itself, in the middle of me writing! Maybe he is just letting me know he is here, but I have acknowledged already that I know he is. It is like he is getting louder and louder trying to tell me something, but I do not know what.

I would think some of this is in my head and me missing him but my dog barking at nothing in the room, maybe eight times now, is independent of what I am thinking or feeling. Not going to lie, this shell thing has me shaken to my core. I told him I do not find it funny.

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