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live love laugh

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Thu Oct 9, 2025, 05:59 PM Thursday

The daughter of my friend's s/o was the victim in a murder/suicide yesterday [View all]

Her mate killed her as she tried to leave him. Years ago I had an employee who killed his wife then himself. Growing up I saw domestic violence firsthand. Black eyes hidden behind dark sunglasses, broken arms … The worst part is that it often happens in front of and sometimes directly to innocent children who are often orphaned or otherwise traumatized sometimes for life. It really should be called domestic terrorism.

Recently Trump downplayed domestic violence as a “lesser“ crime to fluff up the success rate of his DC invasion with troops and feds.

He complained that domestic violence was being counted in the crime statistics, which he claimed meant that the influence of his policy was not being seen as significant enough. “They said, ‘Crime’s down 87%,’” the president claimed, not explaining who “they” were. “I said, no, no, no. It’s more than 87%, virtually nothing. And much lesser things, things that take place in the home they call crime. You know, they’ll do anything they can to find something. If a man has a little fight with the wife, they say this was a crime. See? So now I can’t claim 100%, but we are. We are a safe city.”

The Trump administration has moved to drastically cut federal grants to domestic violence non-profits, which rely heavily on the federal government for funding. The administration has further sought to freeze funding to domestic violence charities that serve trans women victims and participate in diversity, equity and inclusion programming, severely hampering the work of groups that seek to serve marginalized victims from LGBTQ+ or racial minority populations, or to frame domestic violence as a gender justice issue. The administration has also moved to condition domestic violence funding on charities’ willingness to hand over abused women to Ice, a move that would severely limit the ability of undocumented victims to seek help.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/sep/09/trump-domestic-violence

We know Trump’s also a domestic abuser. Most weak men are. (The phenomenon must be rampant in MAGA land.) I hope his efforts to downplay this scourge are reversed asap.

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This is tragic. yellow dahlia Thursday #1
Terrible Starbeach Thursday #2
That is horrific. My heart goes out to your friend's significant other and family. LoisB Thursday #3
I am so sorry. essaynnc Thursday #4
I am so sorry Jilly_in_VA Thursday #5
a friend back in my hometown did this. mopinko Thursday #6
I'm so sorry. chowder66 Thursday #7
K & R malaise Thursday #8
My condolences 😞 MustLoveBeagles Thursday #9
That's terrible. I'm very sorry to hear it. NNadir Thursday #10
It leaves deep scars BeneteauBum Thursday #11
❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 live love laugh Thursday #13
You are so right - Chump has politicized domestic violence in order to get "better" numbers FakeNoose Thursday #12
I'm sorry cate94 Thursday #14
I lost one of my two best friends in high school that way Warpy Thursday #15
I had a friend whose spouce was abusing her sporatically. applegrove Friday #16
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