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Bettie

(19,002 posts)
4. I too, know people who have gone through this
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 09:06 AM
Sep 2023

once you have a pregnancy loss, you meet all sorts of people who do and you realize how common it really is.

I know people who have terminated pregnancies because of terrible diagnoses and people who have carried doomed pregnancies to term. They all felt the pain of losing a wanted child.

And these right wing douchebags think it is OK to turn tragedies into political fodder.

I am so f-ing tired of these...people. (There are many other profane words I could use, but I'm trying to swear less, which is hard these days)

ETA: Another thing about carrying a pregnancy that you know isn't going to end happily: it is agony to the expectant mother, even having made the decision to continue. Everyone comments, ask when they are due, and there is a decision to be made any time: stock answer about due date or the truth...and sometimes it ends with having a breakdown in front of a total stranger because it is just too much to bear. At least one of my parenting after loss friends has had that happen.

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I don't think it's about neonatal hospice at all. Trump and others pushing this probably aren't even brewens Sep 2023 #1
well, i'm old enough to remember when st ronnie started this bullshit. mopinko Sep 2023 #3
Facts? Who cares about facts? Freddie Sep 2023 #2
i think it's important for US to know the truth. mopinko Sep 2023 #6
I too, know people who have gone through this Bettie Sep 2023 #4
and then afterward mopinko Sep 2023 #15
Yes. To all of this Bettie Sep 2023 #18
They ARE monsters Alice Kramden Sep 2023 #5
they've been shopping this lie since st ronnie. mopinko Sep 2023 #17
GOP can only solve imaginary problems Johonny Sep 2023 #7
Wow, that says it all succinctly. Attilatheblond Sep 2023 #11
Good point! housecat Sep 2023 #12
In 1944 my Mom's 1st pregnancy was twin boys Marthe48 Sep 2023 #8
ya never rly get over it. mopinko Sep 2023 #16
Republicans are in favor of killing living babies and have done so. keithbvadu2 Sep 2023 #9
I am tired of Republicans demonizing women. Lonestarblue Sep 2023 #10
+1 n/t area51 Sep 2023 #14
K&R Sedona Sep 2023 #13
This weekend, Donald Trump told a lie about "after-birth abortions". LetMyPeopleVote Sep 2023 #19
we all know it's a lie. but i think it's important to know the truth of what they r talking about. mopinko Sep 2023 #20
Hospice was a blessing when my mother was dying. wnylib Sep 2023 #21
it's so misunderstood. mopinko Sep 2023 #22
I will never forget the quality of life that wnylib Sep 2023 #23
it was an amazing experience. mopinko Sep 2023 #24
It might help some people to understand if the situation was likened to a DNR order. BobTheSubgenius Sep 2023 #25
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