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csziggy

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48. Same here, but the advice we got it was not worth arguing with the IRS

Mon Dec 28, 2020, 09:52 PM

Dec 2020

They are worse about grudges than I am.

I still have the main income, ran the main business we had for the most years, and do all the bookkeeping (with Quicken now). Now I kinda love when idiots call and want to talk to my husband rather than me. He seldom has the answers to their questions so has to turn them back over to me. If it is not essential and I am in a bad mood, I just tell them, "You didn't want to talk to me" and hang up.

I'm at the age where I just don't give a shit anymore.

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