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Mon Oct-10-11 04:08 PM
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Do eternally optimistic people just have malfunctioning frontal lobes? |
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Apparently... 
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RaleighNCDUer
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Mon Oct-10-11 04:18 PM
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1. I tend to be a pessimist because I'd rather be ocassionally pleasantly surprised |
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than regularly disappointed.
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Mon Oct-10-11 05:06 PM
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5. Me too. I usually get jumped on for say stuff like that. |
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Edited on Mon Oct-10-11 05:08 PM by RC
Besides, I rather be correct most of the time.
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Mon Oct-10-11 04:19 PM
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Edited on Mon Oct-10-11 04:20 PM by Avalux
I'd rather be an overly optimistic person and be happy most of the time, than spend my time wondering what horrible thing is going to happen to me next. Why worry about what might happen? Tomorrow might not even come.
I think if my 89 year old grandmother read this she'd get a good laugh. She credits not taking life too seriously as the reason she's still around, and healthy. ;-)
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RaleighNCDUer
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Tue Oct-11-11 10:22 AM
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7. Tomorrow might not even come. |
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You're more pessimistic than you think.
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Mon Oct-10-11 04:27 PM
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3. Or do depressed pessimists need to make up shit to appease their Shadenfreude? |
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Mon Oct-10-11 04:53 PM
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4. Why not be optimistic? Eventually we all go out in a box or an urn, so why worry? /nt |
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Mon Oct-10-11 05:36 PM
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6. My dad had the balance right: |
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"Prepare for the worst and hope for the best."
Continuing to have hope that things just might turn out okay in the end, despite indications to the contrary, is not excessively optimistic -- as long as one has also made preparations for a negative outcome.
It's just wise, like having disaster preparations/supplies at the ready even when all forecasts are clear.
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Tue Oct-11-11 11:11 AM
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8. I call the "eternally optimistic" people "Dr. Panglosses" and they are a threat to society. |
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Edited on Tue Oct-11-11 11:12 AM by Odin2005
They refuse to notice or deal with problems that need attention because they don't want their beautiful minds disturbed.
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