Sexual Assault Survivors Support

Marthe48

(20,432 posts) Sat Apr 17, 2021, 03:31 PM Apr 2021

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How do I come to terms when I learn that people I know have been arrested for sexual assault? One was a person I've known for over 10 years, and the other was a relative I've known all his life. I can't say I'm close to either of them. I don't know details of their charges, except they were arrested.

I cared about these men. I care that they've hurt others. I don't have to be in touch with either ever again. But I'd like to end the conflict I'm having about their crimes. I've known for several weeks, and haven't talked about it to anyone.

I know this is a really difficult topic and if anyone can offer advice, many thanks. I appreciate the effort of reaching out.

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This might not be the right place [View all] Marthe48 Apr 2021 OP

I can't help wryter2000 Apr 2021 #1

Possibly read about their chages to gain understanding SheltieLover Apr 2021 #2

I looked and saw info about one person Marthe48 Apr 2021 #6

I'm sure this is difficult to process SheltieLover Apr 2021 #9

I've been pretty open-minded over the years Marthe48 Apr 2021 #10

I've learned to live mindfully, in the moment SheltieLover Apr 2021 #11

DU is my go-to for everything Marthe48 Apr 2021 #12

Same here! SheltieLover Apr 2021 #13

sexual assault is a pretty broad charge. Kali Apr 2021 #3

Yes, this is what I am having trouble with Marthe48 Apr 2021 #7

I know someone who was arrested for that. murielm99 Apr 2021 #4

I too am trembling with rage today. gibraltar72 Apr 2021 #5

Horrible news to hear Marthe48 Apr 2021 #8