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Sexual Assault Survivors Support

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Ilsa

(62,676 posts)
Fri Aug 2, 2013, 04:08 PM Aug 2013

I cannot pretend that I don't want [View all]

the worst things to happen to the man that raped me. Or to the other men that rape women, children, and other men.

If I was to agree with a poster that "rapists in prison don't deserve to be raped", it would be a lie. I'm tired of denying my feelings in order to "be evolved" on DU.

My life wasn't evolved after what he did to me. My job and my career were affected. My dating life was affected. My trust in others was destroyed for awhile. My relationship with my family changed because I had to hide it from them. The trauma and pain cannot be calculated and thoroughly explained.

Generally, I try to say nothing. I've had one post removed because I stated my feelings. I'll probably get another one removed soon. But yes, I hope for the worst for rapists.

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