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Bereavement

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4. That was not a loss

Tue Sep 23, 2025, 01:39 PM

Sep 23

But in the wife's mind he has morphed into a saint. You can't change that.

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A neighbor lost her abusive husband [View all] MerrilyMerrily Sep 23 OP

Have seen this Timewas Sep 23 #1

Stockholm Syndrome is a real thing genxlib Sep 23 #2

Recommend counseling. Buzz cook Sep 23 #3

That was not a loss Bayard Sep 23 #4

Thank you all for your thoughts MerrilyMerrily Sep 23 #5