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In reply to the discussion: A White man's awakening [View all]

Dan

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5. Unfortunately, this is "somewhat" true for Blacks.
Fri Feb 28, 2025, 01:20 PM
Feb 2025

I was raised by my Grandmother who was born in 1891. My Grandmother’s mother apparently lived with my Grandmother and helped her raise her children that were born between 1911-1930s. Great-Grandmother had been a slave (there are stories there) and there were stories that my Grandmother and my aunts/uncles would share about America. Some of the stories were in the forms of jokes/humor/tales of America that imparted a lesson. But one thing is particular you learned was that their stories were our history that had not been told in history books.

Since we also attended Segregated Schools - the history was reinforced by our Teachers. One day a month when the teachers were paid, they would spend the last half of that school day - talking about white people. What they said versus what they did, and what was in like in the past that white people didn’t talk about what they did.

As I’ve said a few times before in the past, my older brothers and sisters knew nothing of our antidotal history because they were raised in the North and their history was different than mine. There was both good and bad from being raised in the environment that I was, but looking back - I would not change things one bit.

Interesting times.

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A White man's awakening [View all] 70sEraVet Feb 2025 OP
Good Work!!!! Karadeniz Feb 2025 #1
Thank you for posting this. jrthin Feb 2025 #2
Thank you for doing this. LoisB Feb 2025 #3
So many things we whites never even think of, or that we were never taught, like obits in the paper. CrispyQ Feb 2025 #4
Unfortunately, this is "somewhat" true for Blacks. Dan Feb 2025 #5
Just curious, Dan -- 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #6
Small Town Dan Feb 2025 #10
My town is VERY small -- population 300 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #22
Nice ! Dan Feb 2025 #27
My apologies, Dan, for maybe sticking my nose where it doesn't belong.... 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #28
No harm, no foul. Dan Feb 2025 #29
Just wow JMCKUSICK Feb 2025 #7
Thanks much. 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #9
I've tried tracing the slaves that were named in old family wills chowder66 Feb 2025 #8
Wow! 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #11
I don't think it said "in perpetuity" exactly but instead "forever" which is the same thing. chowder66 Feb 2025 #12
He probably deserved worse. 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #16
Seems everyone was pretty happy with the outcome. chowder66 Feb 2025 #17
...... 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #25
Those cemeteries are all over the South in particular. I visited SC plantations live love laugh Feb 2025 #13
I look forward to your OP! 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #15
"Those cemeteries are all over the South in particular. " BumRushDaShow Feb 2025 #21
Great story on the efforts to preserve the burial grounds in Manhattan! 70sEraVet Feb 2025 #24
Here is some of that will..... chowder66 Feb 2025 #14
Thank you for that surfered Feb 2025 #18
Thank you for your work and for your post. NNadir Feb 2025 #19
An excellent work on documentation of slaves concerns Thomas Jefferson's African American family. NNadir Feb 2025 #20
It's vital to preserve Freedmen's Towns and Black Cemeteries Comrade Citizen Feb 2025 #23
Thank you DaBronx Feb 2025 #26
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