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Demeter

(85,373 posts)
13. I suppose it depends on
Wed Dec 10, 2014, 08:12 AM
Dec 2014

1. How long one was married.

2. What kind of damage was inflicted during marriage and divorce proceedings. Marry a psychopath, and you are unlikely to ever chance any kind of relationship, at all.

3. Whether there are minor children involved

4. In many cases, the divorcee hasn't got the time to be lonely, or do anything about it.

5. In some cases, the divorcee decides that remarriage is the fastest way to "normal life" for herself and kids. A case of hope trumping experience, or sometimes, dumb luck or a real "white knight" (the fact that I've never seen one does not preclude the possible existence thereof).

6. Sometimes, the woman already has a prospect lined up. "Planning ahead, planning on failure, or smart cookie?"

7. Some women aren't that picky. Could be why they are divorced...

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Did you really join DU because KMOD Dec 2014 #1
Not the reason I joined. Lolita46 Dec 2014 #2
I don't know what advice you are looking for, exactly. KMOD Dec 2014 #3
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Never divorced but got married at 39 JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #15
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