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chowmama

(791 posts)
19. No way in hell is that even possible
Sun Oct 1, 2023, 09:23 PM
Oct 2023

I work full time and DH doesn't cook. He also can only be persuaded to eat leftovers once. 1-2 nights a week, I get home pretty late, around 7PM. 2-3 nights, I get home closer to 6. I usually have a day off during the week (my schedule is 10+ hour days) and work half a day every other Saturday. So, there's simply no time.

What this means for meal planning is that every weekend is devoted to food. I plan for the week and, ideally, shop. On working Saturdays, I may shop Sunday. The Sunday meal is large, can approximate a feast, and will supply one day's leftovers - any after that is used for my breakfasts or is somehow preserved to make another appearance in a few months. Monday is always a 6ish day, so I can throw together a casserole or the like, which also makes an appearance later in the week. The remaining two days have to be fast, so burgers, pasta, or similar. Saturday, we go out.

Rinse, repeat. Any days off, I can spend time on cooking or stocking up, but there's also all the other stuff that has to get done. Spoiler alert - a lot of it doesn't.

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Good God no. Srkdqltr Oct 2023 #1
I try to cook enough to last a few days Marthe48 Oct 2023 #2
Absolutely. Srkdqltr Oct 2023 #3
+1 - Too bad I still grocery shop w/good intentions. Backseat Driver Oct 2023 #6
Some nights are total disaster. Always edible but not great. Polly Hennessey Oct 2023 #4
If it's marginally edible it's fine with me. Ocelot II Oct 2023 #5
Yes. . . and no. I used to cook about 95% of our meals. rsdsharp Oct 2023 #7
I try to eat healthy and simply. multigraincracker Oct 2023 #8
I worked at Head Start for many years... ggma Oct 2023 #9
I try... slightlv Oct 2023 #10
Good heavens, no! peacefreak2.0 Oct 2023 #11
Sounds like my meals Marthe48 Oct 2023 #12
Yes, I cook 99% of our meals. Callalily Oct 2023 #13
No. I try new recipes, but cooking bores me. sinkingfeeling Oct 2023 #14
Is cooking easy for you? Marthe48 Oct 2023 #17
No, but today I made scrambled eggs that came out super-duper wonderful progree Oct 2023 #15
Glad you are feeling better Marthe48 Oct 2023 #16
most definitely not, lol mike_c Oct 2023 #18
No way in hell is that even possible chowmama Oct 2023 #19
I see the same routine with my daughters Marthe48 Oct 2023 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Paper Roses Oct 2023 #21
It sounds like you're making the best of it Marthe48 Oct 2023 #22
I think there is help available through social security for low income seniors. Demsrule86 Oct 2023 #25
Depends on my pain level Warpy Oct 2023 #23
I am a foodie...I love to cook and will fuss over it until it is right. Demsrule86 Oct 2023 #24
I do things like this most days Marthe48 Oct 2023 #26
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