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Cancer Support

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brer cat

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Thu May 29, 2025, 09:49 PM May 2025

I have been diagnosed with breast cancer (Invasive Lobular Carcenoma) [View all]

The good news is that it was caught early and there are no indications that it has spread. I met with an oncologist today, and she said we would wait until after surgery to decide on radiation and chemotherapy. She did start me on hormone therapy.

I feel ok both physically and emotionally. My main concern is for my family: my daughter and granddaughters who now have another close family member with cancer, and also my older sister/housemate who depends on me for a lot of assistance and who is undergoing testing for possible multiple myeloma. My oldest sister died in March from pancreatic cancer; there is simply a limit to how much we can deal with so close together.

In recent months, I have been dealing with dramatic changes to my vision due to macular degeneration. Tbh, I have been far more upset about my vision loss that I am with the cancer diagnosis. That may change when a surgeon starts working on me, but for now, I am very optimistic.

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That is a lot to deal with. I'm sorry, brer cat. Hoping for the very best. Solly Mack May 2025 #1
Thank you, Solly. brer cat May 2025 #2
Please keep us posted. A sense of humor helps a lot. Solly Mack May 2025 #10
You are so right about humor. When my mother brer cat May 2025 #12
Sending you strength and healing! yardwork May 2025 #3
A lot going on and awfully fast in your life. Take care of yourself first and your positive attitude will be the best Deuxcents May 2025 #4
So saddened to hear of your dx, BC SheltieLover May 2025 #5
So sorry you are going through this Lifeafter70 May 2025 #6
I'm so sorry bre cat. choie May 2025 #7
Stay optimistic. It helps. sinkingfeeling May 2025 #8
I'm so sorry. viva la May 2025 #9
We are all pulling for you. multigraincracker May 2025 #11
brer, I'm so sorry to hear this news. greatauntoftriplets May 2025 #13
Thank you, gaot! brer cat May 2025 #15
You're welcome. greatauntoftriplets May 2025 #17
You and your family have been getting getting hit from all sides, brer. sheshe2 May 2025 #14
Thank you, she. Support from my virtual friends brer cat May 2025 #16
You will always have that! sheshe2 May 2025 #20
So sorry you're having to deal with so much... maspaha May 2025 #18
Sorry you are dealing with so much! cate94 May 2025 #19
That's a lot! Lulu KC May 2025 #21
Wow, that's a lot to handle. I hope that you know that we are all Marie Marie May 2025 #22
Ohh, brercat.. sending my Love and Cha May 2025 #23
Thank you, Cha. I know that you understand. brer cat May 2025 #29
I Love & Appreciate you So Much, brercat!💙🌈 Cha May 2025 #34
my epal had breast cancer a few years ago. just lumpectomy + chemo i think. it reared back w/ a vengeance. a cough pansypoo53219 May 2025 #24
I'm sending you healing thoughts wrapped in warm light and hugs!🥰 MLAA May 2025 #25
Boy the challenges are coming at you one after anothet.. Permanut May 2025 #26
There have been strides in inproved breast cancer treatment. Catching it early is a great start. marble falls May 2025 #27
"" AllaN01Bear May 2025 #28
One of the things I learned when I got eary breast cancer 9 years ago dixiegrrrrl May 2025 #30
I heard some good news on macular degeneration NJCher May 2025 #31
Thanks, NJCher. I have one eye with dry AMD and the other brer cat May 2025 #35
My very, very best wishes to you DarthDem May 2025 #32
That is a lot to deal with. May all the good angels of The Universe step in to assist you. LoisB May 2025 #33
Thank you, Lois. brer cat May 2025 #36
I am so sorry but I am glad that this was caught early LetMyPeopleVote May 2025 #37
Thanks, my friend. I appreciate it. brer cat May 2025 #38
My mentor's first wife survived 14 years with stage IV breast cancer LetMyPeopleVote May 2025 #39
Wishing you a quick recovery brer_cat JohnSJ May 2025 #40
My dearest Brer Cat WhiteTara May 2025 #41
Hugs and hope sent to you. BoomaofBandM May 2025 #42
positive hugs for you, that is quite a bit going on for you, peacebuzzard May 2025 #43
Oh no! BumRushDaShow May 2025 #44
Thanks, BRDS. Now you know why I didn't sign up brer cat May 2025 #45
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