Is anyone else living with a spouse with dementia?

[Ziggysmom]

6. My husband died last week. He was in a memory care facility. He fell three times while there, and

I was told they would increase his level of care. On 2/7 he died after yet another fall causing a sub arachnoid hemorrhage in the brain. The facility didn’t even call me; I was contacted by the ER physician where they sent him.

I put him in care to keep him safe, he would wander and take off his oxygen, etc so I could barely sleep. I don’t mean to frighten you, some facilities are very good. If you decide on placement, check inspection records and complaints filed with your state. Pop in UNANNOUNCED for a tour.

My heart weeps for you and your beloved husband. If you have specific questions, feel free to DU mail me. I almost forgot. One most important thing is medication. It made a world of difference for my husband. See a good psychiatrist with dementia experience.

Hugs and prayers to you