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peasant one

(169 posts)

4. not spouse but mom

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Sun Feb 15, 2026, 06:30 AM

Yesterday

We have a large family and for two years shared the nights taking care of mom and in the day had people care for her. It was very wonderful but extremely hard, even for the two days a week I spent with her. You must get help and you must find someone close to you to talk it through. I felt love, guilt, anger, sadness, frustration, and fear-all in a matter of minutes. But had sisters and brothers to talk to about these feelings. It really helps. Good luck with your journey.