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dweller

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16. Your story reminds me of my older friend
Thu Oct 9, 2025, 06:42 PM
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let’s call him Fred , he’s maybe 10+ yrs older than me . Used to be my neighbor where we used to live , and one day he asked me if I could look at a home he was contemplating buying out in the country 20+ miles from us then . He knew I had some experience in building trades and wanted my opinion on the home’s condition .
It was only about 10+ yrs old and was built by a couple he knew , wife designed it , but I think they were splitting up and so selling out . It had nice passive solar heating features , 2 bdrm, 2 story with an office upstairs , nice kitchen , dining rm , liv rm with double sided fireplace , etc.
Siding and roof excellent condition , on 9+ acres of woodland , secluded in a township he called elf land . So of course he bought it .
Over several years he had me do some handyman chores for him , mostly when he was out country on business in Mexico, Guatemala , Nicaragua and various Caribbean loacations for weeks at a time . I would house sit and do the work at my pace . Didn’t really see much of him but would pick him up for these trips to take to airport departures and again pick him up for his arrival . There were all paying gigs so it was all good with me .
He was once a professor at a uni in Colorado teaching Latin American studies , spoke very fluent Spanish and dealt in Latin American lit for his business buying periodicals and books that he supplied to worldwide libraries . Really interesting guy and we had great discussions about politics , philosophy and assorted sundry subjects over the years . But more than often any time I spent with him went like this : I’d occasionally visit him when he was in country , and sit on his back deck ( which I built) enjoying a glass of wine , some smoke , just sitting in the sun , the breeze through the trees , birds singing , in silence … for hours until he’d simply say usually without any intonation or vehemence , “ Fuck trump “
And after another 20+ mins or so , I’d reply ‘ no shit , Fred “

Don’t know why but I thought you’d get that story , because yours reminded me of him .




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Boy have I got a story for you ... dweller Thursday #1
OK chief! Let's do lunch real soon! LuckyCharms Thursday #3
Your story reminds me of my older friend dweller Thursday #16
This is amazing. LuckyCharms Thursday #17
My dear LuckyCharms! I want you to know that *I* care. About you, your life, anything you want to talk about! CaliforniaPeggy Thursday #2
I'm fine, Peg, but thank you. LuckyCharms Thursday #4
You're welcome. I am doing well too, and thank you! CaliforniaPeggy Thursday #5
You must have one of those faces that encourages people to open up to you. MIButterfly Thursday #6
This happened to Lucky when he was fully masked Niagara Thursday #12
He had on a mask AND sunglasses? MIButterfly Thursday #13
I'm sorry. I didn't mean this particular event or doctors visit Niagara Thursday #14
Even strangers love Lucky and are attracted by his empathetic aura. quaint Thursday #7
I learned quite early in my nursing career to never, EVER, tell anyone I was a nurse... 3catwoman3 Thursday #8
So, I guess you're not going to tell us what the sunglasses are called. 2MuchNoise Thursday #9
Here's a link. I got the blue ones. LuckyCharms Thursday #10
LOL, Thanks. 2MuchNoise Thursday #11
You must be a very approachable dude. Prairie_Seagull Thursday #15
He's a very nice guy... LuckyCharms Thursday #24
I *do* care about that Oeditpus Rex Thursday #18
When we are in chronic pain... LuckyCharms Thursday #21
That's the most touching post I've read on DU Oeditpus Rex Thursday #25
Frankly, your story is better than a lot of stories on Netflix. chouchou Thursday #19
Oh thank you... LuckyCharms Thursday #23
Now, if you would have STARTED at the weed store... WestMichRad Thursday #20
I probably should have started there, but I was driving... LuckyCharms Thursday #22
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