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LuckyCharms

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18. ShazzieB, I've been Type 1 for decades.
Mon May 1, 2023, 11:55 AM
May 2023

1) Don't worry, they will normalize his glucose.

2) High glucose itself, in the short term, will not cause him permanent damage unless it is super high.

3) They will monitor him for Diabetic Ketoacidosis, which he is probably at risk for. The hospital will be able to manage that.

4) If he is not already on a continuous glucose monitor, such as Dexcom, ask the doctor to prescribe one. They are a game changer.

5) You're going to have to be a hard ass with him. Do not keep any shit food in the house.

6) Make sure he sets himself up with a retina specialist and a podiatrist. Make sure he sees them on a scheduled basis.

7) Even with a glucose monitor, you are both going to be losing sleep because of the high and low alarms that go off in the middle of the night.

8) After about a year of having the glucose monitor, you both will learn intuitively what foods and activities trigger his highs and lows.

9) You can't take care of him unless you take care of yourself first.

I hope he is feeling better soon, and I hope you can get some rest soon. Hang in there. It's a nasty disease, but it can be managed. But no lie, it's a huge pain in the ass and you have to develop a sense of humor to get through it.

Edit to add:

10) Blood tests from a diabetes doc every three months.

11) Lots of water if his kidneys are OK.

12) See a nutritionist.

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I could use some support. [View all] ShazzieB May 2023 OP
I hope he will accept your help, and that you both GPV May 2023 #1
Very sorry to hear this. I hope he will be ok. spooky3 May 2023 #2
I am sorry to hear that, Shazzie. sheshe2 May 2023 #3
I hope things will be ok XanaDUer2 May 2023 #4
Sending you both good vibes and thoughts LakeArenal May 2023 #5
I'm so sorry for both of you. Managing a chronic disease Phoenix61 May 2023 #6
Kickin' Faux pas May 2023 #7
I feel your concerns. ProudMNDemocrat May 2023 #8
Does he have an insulin pump? sinkingfeeling May 2023 #9
Sounds like your daughter is nearby. That's good you have someone close you can lean on. Fla Dem May 2023 #10
Sending healing vibes Marthe48 May 2023 #11
My thought are with you LostOne4Ever May 2023 #12
Goodness. Sending positive vibes to you both. I hope your husband's blood sugar gets LoisB May 2023 #13
Love and good vibes for you both, Shazzie! ancianita May 2023 #14
Your Husband Needs a DEXCOM people May 2023 #15
Convince him that you love and need him, so he must do this on his own or accept your help. Karadeniz May 2023 #16
Hang in there! And take care of blood sugar! forgotmylogin May 2023 #17
ShazzieB, I've been Type 1 for decades. LuckyCharms May 2023 #18
How worrisome. Please update us. pandr32 May 2023 #19
We are here for both of you, Shazzie. murielm99 May 2023 #20
I hope he recovers quickly AmBlue May 2023 #21
My husband is Type II. Had a massive stroke after the orange cancer was elected. onecaliberal May 2023 #22
I hope all goes well and they get to the bottom of the high blood sugar cause. Bluethroughu May 2023 #23
One other comment: LuckyCharms May 2023 #24
Massive vibes coming your way. greatauntoftriplets May 2023 #25
Rest, and know we are holding your in our hearts... FirstLight May 2023 #26
Shazzie milestogo May 2023 #27
sending good vibes... Phentex May 2023 #28
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