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ShazzieB

(21,831 posts)
Mon May 1, 2023, 09:50 AM May 2023

I could use some support. [View all]

My husband woke me up very early this morning to tell me he needed to go to the hospital. He is diabetic, and his blood sugar was getting dangerously high in spite of giving himself some insulin. Since then, he has been admitted to the hospital. They're taking good care of him, and I have every reason to believe he's going to be okay, but I'm all tied up in knots in spite of that. This is the third time in (I think?) 6 years that he's had to be hospitalized due to his blood sugar going through the roof, and he has come through fine in the past, but it's very worrisome that it keeps happening,

Obviously, he is not managing his diabetes as well as he needs to, and I am going to have to get more actively involved. He's very independent and hardly ever asks for help with anything. For a long time after the diagnosis he seemed to be managing fine, and I was happy to let him do so. The first time he had this kind of problem, he was getting over the flu, and the second time it happened, he was recovering from having a lot of teeth removed. Both times, he wasn't eating right, and also got dehydrated, and things kind of spiraled out of control before we knew it. We figured, okay, we will just have to remember to keep an extra close eye on his blood sugar any time he's under the weather.This time, there wasn't any precipitating factor like an illness, which is even more scary. So like I said, I am just going to have to stick my nose into things after this, and try to help him figure out how to keep this from happening again.

Later today, I will call my daughter and ask her to go with me to see him. In the meantime, I need to get some sleep. I was up really last last night (as is my habit), so I had only had about 3 hours of sleep when he shook ms awake to tell me what was going on. I know that if I don't get some sleep soon, I'm going to crash hard at some point. I was too keyed up to feel like sleeping for a while there, but fortunately, writing this has helped me calm down.

That's it for now. Will post again when I have an update.

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I could use some support. [View all] ShazzieB May 2023 OP
I hope he will accept your help, and that you both GPV May 2023 #1
Very sorry to hear this. I hope he will be ok. spooky3 May 2023 #2
I am sorry to hear that, Shazzie. sheshe2 May 2023 #3
I hope things will be ok XanaDUer2 May 2023 #4
Sending you both good vibes and thoughts LakeArenal May 2023 #5
I'm so sorry for both of you. Managing a chronic disease Phoenix61 May 2023 #6
Kickin' Faux pas May 2023 #7
I feel your concerns. ProudMNDemocrat May 2023 #8
Does he have an insulin pump? sinkingfeeling May 2023 #9
Sounds like your daughter is nearby. That's good you have someone close you can lean on. Fla Dem May 2023 #10
Sending healing vibes Marthe48 May 2023 #11
My thought are with you LostOne4Ever May 2023 #12
Goodness. Sending positive vibes to you both. I hope your husband's blood sugar gets LoisB May 2023 #13
Love and good vibes for you both, Shazzie! ancianita May 2023 #14
Your Husband Needs a DEXCOM people May 2023 #15
Convince him that you love and need him, so he must do this on his own or accept your help. Karadeniz May 2023 #16
Hang in there! And take care of blood sugar! forgotmylogin May 2023 #17
ShazzieB, I've been Type 1 for decades. LuckyCharms May 2023 #18
How worrisome. Please update us. pandr32 May 2023 #19
We are here for both of you, Shazzie. murielm99 May 2023 #20
I hope he recovers quickly AmBlue May 2023 #21
My husband is Type II. Had a massive stroke after the orange cancer was elected. onecaliberal May 2023 #22
I hope all goes well and they get to the bottom of the high blood sugar cause. Bluethroughu May 2023 #23
One other comment: LuckyCharms May 2023 #24
Massive vibes coming your way. greatauntoftriplets May 2023 #25
Rest, and know we are holding your in our hearts... FirstLight May 2023 #26
Shazzie milestogo May 2023 #27
sending good vibes... Phentex May 2023 #28
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