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39. I had a massive crush on the same kid from K-5th grade

Wed Feb 8, 2023, 07:03 PM

Feb 2023

Then, my family moved out of state and I never saw him again.

I Googled him, just for giggles a week or so ago.
I found a piece he wrote for his High School reunion!

He apparently is married to his high school sweetheart and he is all Jeebus-y.

Funny, because looking back on my elementary school memories, I would have SWORN he was gay.
He had the same BFF all those years and they were VERY physically affectionate with each other.
Held hands, sat in each other's laps, cuddled. No other boys did that, but they were ALWAYS like that.

I fully expected my Google search to reveal that he was living on Fire Island with that same guy and that they had adorable little fur babies.

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And they called it puppy love--do you remember your first love? [View all] debm55 Feb 2023 OP

Yes and we remained good friends. LakeArenal Feb 2023 #1

Lake, very sweet. debm55 Feb 2023 #4

Yes, saw him at my 56th. class reunion. Started school with him at age 6. sinkingfeeling Feb 2023 #2

Did you see any reminders of him as a younger kid? debm55 Feb 2023 #5

yep, he still has his curly hair. sinkingfeeling Feb 2023 #13

Ah yes! It WAS puppy love 💕. And her nose is still cold and wet. Beakybird Feb 2023 #3

That is too funny. debm55 Feb 2023 #6

Yup! If you mean the human kind.... woodsprite Feb 2023 #7

woodsprite, I hope you get a pupper. Been married for 38-you are very blessed. debm55 Feb 2023 #23

"It must have been puppy love Sneederbunk Feb 2023 #8

you never forget your first love. yellowdogintexas Feb 2023 #9

yellowdog, you are so lucky that you remained friends. When I contacted my first love, he told me we debm55 Feb 2023 #24

Yes! frogmarch Feb 2023 #10

frogmarch, what a beautiful picture. Is Dwight your first love? debm55 Feb 2023 #25

Sonny was. frogmarch Feb 2023 #37

frog, have you ever seen or followed up on Sonny? debm55 Feb 2023 #41

I looked frogmarch Feb 2023 #48

I met mine Jilly_in_VA Feb 2023 #11

Jilly, that is so nice that he remembered you. How sweet. debm55 Feb 2023 #26

Yes snowybirdie Feb 2023 #12

snow, good for you. I like stories with happy endings. debm55 Feb 2023 #27

Frankly, I don't understand why someone would forget. malthaussen Feb 2023 #14

Well, when you have the girl that everyone wanted, I guess he found it easy. I still remember him. debm55 Feb 2023 #28

Yes Doc_Technical Feb 2023 #15

Wow and you still remember her name? debm55 Feb 2023 #29

I sure do ironflange Feb 2023 #16

Aww, that's so sweet! Luciferous Feb 2023 #21

iron, that is wonderful. debm55 Feb 2023 #30

iron, what a sweet story. debm55 Feb 2023 #42

Yes. Sheila. Gorgeous girl in my French class.... lastlib Feb 2023 #17

Yes, for some of us memories will always be there. debm55 Feb 2023 #31

My first " crush " blueknight73 Feb 2023 #18

Did you remeet with her? debm55 Feb 2023 #32

Yes I did, blueknight73 Feb 2023 #43

I remember, and now, if I smell "that" perfume, my pulse speeds up JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2023 #19

They say that smell is the strongest smell to bring about memories. debm55 Feb 2023 #33

Yep. I was 15, he was 18 and we were on Luciferous Feb 2023 #20

Never met up with him? debm55 Feb 2023 #34

No, I wasn't that interested in reconnecting. The last time I saw him was 20 years ago. Luciferous Feb 2023 #36

First grade in Catholic school. Mr.Bill Feb 2023 #22

Mr. Bill --yes a sin of the flesh. LOL debm55 Feb 2023 #35

I married him. Mad_Dem_X Feb 2023 #38

Mad. I would have to agree in a way with that. Chris was nice to me at the beginning. He drove to CA debm55 Feb 2023 #44

... Mad_Dem_X Feb 2023 #51

I had a massive crush on the same kid from K-5th grade Coventina Feb 2023 #39

Oh Coventina, that made me laugh so hard. When we met Chris was like a young James Taylor, today he debm55 Feb 2023 #45

He recently contacted me - found me on Facebook womanofthehills Feb 2023 #40

woman, I would stay away. He might be rich, but something is not right with having 4 wives. I posted debm55 Feb 2023 #46

yes....Alan Skittles Feb 2023 #47

Skittles, give it some time and try again. It so sad that every time you wanted to meet up with him, debm55 Feb 2023 #49

it was so different back then Skittles Feb 2023 #50

I vividly remember my first trip to the land of love. Chainfire Feb 2023 #52