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In reply to the discussion: Should DU be an English Only site? [View all]quinnox
(20,600 posts)think of it this way, if 4 people are in a group, and all talking together, having conversation, enjoying themselves, and then all of a sudden one person whispers in the ear of another person, and the other person does the same thing back, that would be rude. It is excluding the other two people in the group, because they can't hear or understand what the other two are saying. To make the example even more clear, let's say those two people keep whispering to each other, and ignore the other two people in the group.
I made my example devoid of language, to show it is not purely a language issue. It is about human communication norms. Yes, many people will think other people are talking about them, whether they are whispering, or speaking in a foreign tongue. Who knows why, but it is a common thing. Call it a quirk of human psychology.
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