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In reply to the discussion: Fuck. [View all]duhneece
(4,406 posts)My late husband lost both legs in VietNam, but he wasn't 'ruined.' He hated the word 'disabled'...he preferred 'challenged' as in 'physically damaged.'
With a grin, he used to say that he actually preferred the word 'gimp'...he said it was one syllable and reminded him of 'cute'.
But, Will, I do know you meant it with compassion and caring so I don't hold that against you. I really do get where you're coming from, but I bristled starting with that one word...maybe just my own prejudice. There IS no easy way to talk about the changes in men, women and children due to unjustified war (I actually think WWII was justified, especially and mostly after seeing the concentration camps 'tho not the dropping of atomic bombs, but that's many other threads!)
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