Public distress is uncomfortable. I'm so thankful for the people who ignored the awkwardness.

[Wonder Why]

5. I agree that reaching out, in a respectful way, is the right thing to do. Like saying you recognize the

person is stressed and if they need help, just ask me and I'll do what I can. It does not impose on them because they can politely decline and it allows them to make the choice without pressure. It also allows you to say that what they need is beyond you but you are willing to help find the right support.

It's like the salesperson who doesn't say "Can I help you?" when you are just looking around (imposing themselves on you) but who, instead, says "If you need help, just ask. I am available." (letting you call the shots)