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Bernardo de La Paz

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14. Don't know about you, but I'm happy even while loathing and despising tRump

Thu Oct 30, 2025, 11:37 AM

Thursday

Sorry about friction with your son.

When I was in the US, I despised Bush and yet I was happy.
In Canada, I despised Prime Minister Harper and yet I was happy.

It's very possible to be happy while being upset about the state of politics. Hate is hot, consuming, toxic, and leads to unhappiness. Loathing and despising are cold and don't interfere with happiness.

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My aunt and I are taking a flight soon. [View all] MIButterfly Thursday OP

my sister in law has sworn off flying after a liftime... samnsara Thursday #1

Thanks, samnsara. MIButterfly Thursday #2

try to remember barbtries Thursday #33

She's super sensitive to it? Happy Hoosier Thursday #12

Same With Me. ColoringFool Thursday #22

If only we had Europe's rail network! Lonestarblue Thursday #3

I grew up in Detroit and I guess because cars were built there, they expected everyone to have a car MIButterfly Thursday #6

Back in the 1920's everyone wanted a car, but it was a luxury FakeNoose Thursday #17

I think Chicago has a great public transit system. MIButterfly Thursday #21

Keep in mind that Europe is a lot smaller than the U. S. PoindexterOglethorpe Thursday #8

Is China? barbtries Thursday #11

Did China start with overwhelming private car ownership? PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #42

I think its China that has perfected the bullet train. peacebuzzard Friday #53

Not really an excuse... Shipwack Thursday #20

Actually, it is the excuse. PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #43

In land mass Europe is slightly larger than the US spooky3 Thursday #28

It WAS easier to build good train service. But they have let it go bad DFW Friday #51

Abysmal. I didn't know the system was deteriorating. peacebuzzard Friday #54

It has been going downhill here for a while. A self-perpetuating bureaucracy has no interest in efficiency. DFW Friday #63

sounds like five star Germany has devolved to the norms of the rest of the world.... peacebuzzard Friday #67

I've never been to the Azores and don't speak much Portuguese DFW Friday #68

Its been many decades since I have been to the Azores peacebuzzard Yesterday #70

Porto is the one city there I actually DO know to some degree DFW Yesterday #71

I think that is one of my dream towns to visit. Maybe the only one. peacebuzzard 22 hrs ago #73

Sorry to hear this, and sorry for you. In the 90s train travel spooky3 Friday #61

You got that right!! DFW Friday #64

I have four air travel trips coming up from November 05 - January 24. I am NOT looking forward to it. Pacifist Patriot Thursday #4

I was having occasional dizziness and imbalance like you describe FakeNoose Thursday #18

It's why I use motion sickness patches. miyazaki Thursday #34

Hmmm.... I'll bring that up with my ENT. Pacifist Patriot Friday #49

good advice. barbtries Thursday #35

Vertigo is awful! Pacifist Patriot Friday #50

I have so many specialists my phone contacts skew to D for Doctor. Pacifist Patriot Friday #48

I have no intention of flying for at least three more years. Unless it's a one-way ticket out of the country. Borogove Thursday #5

I agree. Then I thought about those "rendition" airplane rides. All expenses paid. erronis Thursday #7

that's not an option in my world. barbtries Thursday #10

When I told my son that TSA agents are not getting paid, barbtries Thursday #9

Don't know about you, but I'm happy even while loathing and despising tRump Bernardo de La Paz Thursday #14

thanks barbtries Thursday #16

Grief, despair, & sadness I share with you, at times, but they pass before long & I become optimistic again Bernardo de La Paz Thursday #19

I'm sorry you had to endure that. Hope22 Thursday #25

I know who my ex-DIL's mother is barbtries Thursday #32

We flew Tuesday, will again next week RainCaster Thursday #13

how was it at the airports? barbtries Thursday #36

Mostly empty RainCaster Friday #66

my last trip was to LAX barbtries Friday #69

We make $110,000. Fortunately, it is SS and defined 3Hotdogs Thursday #15

That $8300 a month! maunagirl Friday #45

Take off income tax. 3Hotdogs Friday #56

I Quit flying Topomi Thursday #23

Everyone quit flying then. All planes were empty of passengers. peacebuzzard Friday #55

Have a wonderful(?) trip with her. Wonder Why Thursday #24

I hope to have a wonderful trip DESPITE her! MIButterfly Thursday #27

Air traffic controllers are paid pretty well, and they should be. Ocelot II Thursday #26

I flew home from Heathrow to RDU mnhtnbb Thursday #29

Thanks, mnhtnbb! MIButterfly Thursday #37

My daughter makes over double that Tree Lady Thursday #30

Exactly! MIButterfly Thursday #38

Feel same way unfortunately she has been with Tree Lady Thursday #40

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Flying ms.pamela Thursday #31

Exactly. People like my aunt have absolutely no idea MIButterfly Thursday #39

Your aunt is very naive. RVN VET71 Thursday #41

Not necessarily. maunagirl Friday #46

try living in a compact car for a week... ret5hd Friday #58

If someone makes $100K a year maunagirl Friday #44

It is more nuanced than that. Pacifist Patriot Friday #52

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welcome to DU, muanagirl peacebuzzard Friday #57

i have high hopes for that one. ret5hd Friday #59

She was close but a little low: EX500rider Friday #62

As well they should! MIButterfly Friday #65

yes they are. peacebuzzard 22 hrs ago #72