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Pacifist Patriot

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4. I have four air travel trips coming up from November 05 - January 24. I am NOT looking forward to it.

Thu Oct 30, 2025, 10:30 AM

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I've been a nervous flier for decades and now have something weird going on with my balance and spatial awareness. Sudden movement generates an over-reaction that includes the physiological symptoms associated with panic attacks. Turbulence wrecks me!!! I warn the flight attendants that they will see tears from me. I can't help it. And these days it doesn't seem to be whether or not you'll hit turbulence in a flight, but how much and how often.

Back to your post though. I completely agree with all your points. I also think she might need to be reminded that $104K today was less than $50K just 30 years ago. Housing and education costs have risen way more than that!

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My aunt and I are taking a flight soon. [View all] MIButterfly Thursday OP

my sister in law has sworn off flying after a liftime... samnsara Thursday #1

Thanks, samnsara. MIButterfly Thursday #2

try to remember barbtries Thursday #33

She's super sensitive to it? Happy Hoosier Thursday #12

Same With Me. ColoringFool Thursday #22

If only we had Europe's rail network! Lonestarblue Thursday #3

I grew up in Detroit and I guess because cars were built there, they expected everyone to have a car MIButterfly Thursday #6

Back in the 1920's everyone wanted a car, but it was a luxury FakeNoose Thursday #17

I think Chicago has a great public transit system. MIButterfly Thursday #21

Keep in mind that Europe is a lot smaller than the U. S. PoindexterOglethorpe Thursday #8

Is China? barbtries Thursday #11

Did China start with overwhelming private car ownership? PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #42

I think its China that has perfected the bullet train. peacebuzzard Friday #53

Not really an excuse... Shipwack Thursday #20

Actually, it is the excuse. PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #43

In land mass Europe is slightly larger than the US spooky3 Thursday #28

It WAS easier to build good train service. But they have let it go bad DFW Friday #51

Abysmal. I didn't know the system was deteriorating. peacebuzzard Friday #54

It has been going downhill here for a while. A self-perpetuating bureaucracy has no interest in efficiency. DFW Friday #63

sounds like five star Germany has devolved to the norms of the rest of the world.... peacebuzzard Friday #67

I've never been to the Azores and don't speak much Portuguese DFW Friday #68

Its been many decades since I have been to the Azores peacebuzzard Yesterday #70

Porto is the one city there I actually DO know to some degree DFW Yesterday #71

I think that is one of my dream towns to visit. Maybe the only one. peacebuzzard 22 hrs ago #73

Sorry to hear this, and sorry for you. In the 90s train travel spooky3 Friday #61

You got that right!! DFW Friday #64

I have four air travel trips coming up from November 05 - January 24. I am NOT looking forward to it. Pacifist Patriot Thursday #4

I was having occasional dizziness and imbalance like you describe FakeNoose Thursday #18

It's why I use motion sickness patches. miyazaki Thursday #34

Hmmm.... I'll bring that up with my ENT. Pacifist Patriot Friday #49

good advice. barbtries Thursday #35

Vertigo is awful! Pacifist Patriot Friday #50

I have so many specialists my phone contacts skew to D for Doctor. Pacifist Patriot Friday #48

I have no intention of flying for at least three more years. Unless it's a one-way ticket out of the country. Borogove Thursday #5

I agree. Then I thought about those "rendition" airplane rides. All expenses paid. erronis Thursday #7

that's not an option in my world. barbtries Thursday #10

When I told my son that TSA agents are not getting paid, barbtries Thursday #9

Don't know about you, but I'm happy even while loathing and despising tRump Bernardo de La Paz Thursday #14

thanks barbtries Thursday #16

Grief, despair, & sadness I share with you, at times, but they pass before long & I become optimistic again Bernardo de La Paz Thursday #19

I'm sorry you had to endure that. Hope22 Thursday #25

I know who my ex-DIL's mother is barbtries Thursday #32

We flew Tuesday, will again next week RainCaster Thursday #13

how was it at the airports? barbtries Thursday #36

Mostly empty RainCaster Friday #66

my last trip was to LAX barbtries Friday #69

We make $110,000. Fortunately, it is SS and defined 3Hotdogs Thursday #15

That $8300 a month! maunagirl Friday #45

Take off income tax. 3Hotdogs Friday #56

I Quit flying Topomi Thursday #23

Everyone quit flying then. All planes were empty of passengers. peacebuzzard Friday #55

Have a wonderful(?) trip with her. Wonder Why Thursday #24

I hope to have a wonderful trip DESPITE her! MIButterfly Thursday #27

Air traffic controllers are paid pretty well, and they should be. Ocelot II Thursday #26

I flew home from Heathrow to RDU mnhtnbb Thursday #29

Thanks, mnhtnbb! MIButterfly Thursday #37

My daughter makes over double that Tree Lady Thursday #30

Exactly! MIButterfly Thursday #38

Feel same way unfortunately she has been with Tree Lady Thursday #40

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Flying ms.pamela Thursday #31

Exactly. People like my aunt have absolutely no idea MIButterfly Thursday #39

Your aunt is very naive. RVN VET71 Thursday #41

Not necessarily. maunagirl Friday #46

try living in a compact car for a week... ret5hd Friday #58

If someone makes $100K a year maunagirl Friday #44

It is more nuanced than that. Pacifist Patriot Friday #52

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welcome to DU, muanagirl peacebuzzard Friday #57

i have high hopes for that one. ret5hd Friday #59

She was close but a little low: EX500rider Friday #62

As well they should! MIButterfly Friday #65

yes they are. peacebuzzard 22 hrs ago #72