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cab67

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Sat Oct 25, 2025, 05:02 PM Saturday

Know why I may never forgive the current president? [View all]

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Our daughter, who we adopted, is of Mexican ancestry. She's in 4th grade, and we're in an area with lots of ICE activity.

We've tried to shelter her from the worst of the news, but she's fully aware of what ICE is, what ICE is doing, and the fact that people who look kind of like her are frequent targets. ICE agents have been seen in parks near her school.

This morning, my phone went off. Amber Alert - missing child. My daughter was next to me when it arrived.

She looked at me with real panic. "Was it ICE?!" she asked. She then ran off crying, worried that ICE might come for her. She wasn't play-panicking, either - she was genuinely terrified.

My daughter shouldn't have to afraid to be herself in the neighborhood. She's afraid unknown adults will come and grab her. No child should experience that.

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As ever, the cruelty is the point...nt Wounded Bear Saturday #1
I am right there with you and your daughter, my dear cab67! CaliforniaPeggy Saturday #2
cab67 my hearts breaks for you and your daughter bronxiteforever Saturday #3
Heartbreaking. I hope that the child that caused the alert was found safe and sound question everything Saturday #4
I'm so sorry. Mblaze Saturday #5
❤️ littlemissmartypants Saturday #6
My suggestion is to get your daughter a US passport FakeNoose Saturday #7
Go with a passport card fujiyamasan Saturday #16
Good suggestion! FakeNoose Saturday #20
She has one. cab67 Saturday #25
Yes, but the other way around. Keep the passport in safe place but have her carry the hi-res copy. . . .nt Bernardo de La Paz Saturday #31
This country is NOT a good country in which to raise a child, IMO. slightlv Saturday #8
tRUMP's murdered many people already wolfie001 Saturday #9
Someone gonna do a Luigi. BradBo Saturday #10
If there's a better definition of terror, I haven't heard it JMCKUSICK Saturday #11
May? Ferrets are Cool Saturday #12
I hate all of them. Prof. Toru Tanaka Saturday #14
This is so freaking wrong. That anxiety could follow her forever. 1WorldHope Saturday #13
I understand. It's just wonderful to wake up and replay Germany in the fucking Dark-Ages. chouchou Saturday #15
Fuck those fucking ICE fuckers. 😡😠🤬 ShazzieB Saturday #17
He is evil beyond words Grim Chieftain Saturday #18
Despise is a very good word and a suitable replacement for "hate". Loathe is also very applicable. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Saturday #32
We don't have to make-up a Monster for Halloween..We have one in the Whitehouse. chouchou Saturday #19
I can't find the words, cab67. democrank Saturday #21
and the most evil part is DBoon Saturday #22
People like him/that are So Evil! electric_blue68 Saturday #26
Please tell her that all of Democratic Underground are happy she's here elleng Saturday #23
That is horrific. This is sheer terror unleashed on AMERICANS. Please give your daughter an extra hug from DU friends. Evolve Dammit Saturday #24
Hug your daughter from me. Duncanpup Saturday #27
i never forgave : AllaN01Bear Saturday #28
Gentle hugs to your daughter, and you. So hideous to feel terrorized by ICE. electric_blue68 Saturday #29
The same terror as it was for B.See Saturday #30
Hugs to you and your daughter. I'm babylonsister Saturday #33
That's a damned shame. No child should be afraid to go to school, play outside, go to the store LoisB Saturday #34
I am stage left Saturday #35
Forgive? Never LittleGirl Saturday #36
I completely understand. Sailingdiver Saturday #37
Hug to you, and your bonus daughter.... electric_blue68 Sunday #39
Made my day Sailingdiver Monday #43
That is a feature, not a bug, in Trump's immigration "policy". 11 Bravo Saturday #38
I'm so sorry, cab67 mcar Sunday #40
I will NEVER LilElf70 Sunday #41
Just why the f**k are there even troops in our streets vapor2 Sunday #42
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