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ForgedCrank

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12. This is
Thu Oct 16, 2025, 08:47 AM
Thursday

the consequence of racist a-holes abusing language. That is technically the proper descriptor, but it can no longer be used used due to certain types applying it in a hateful way. I'm just old enough where my brain still considers that to be the respectful word to use, and I have to make myself use "Black" because that used to be more out of line and it makes me mildly uncomfortable using it. It used to even be on all of the government forms. I guess it could also be a regional thing.
In the end, I'm Ok using whatever someone wants to be referred as, but it's a shame someone got into trouble for it all because of how we got to this point.

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Show HR the online site that no_hypocrisy Thursday #1
Precisely this - it's the name of the museum hatrack Thursday #2
Difficult to tell anymore tcfrogs Thursday #6
Way ahead of you tcfrogs Thursday #3
Print out a hard copy and hand it to them. Hopefully the meeting lasts 2 minutes. TheRickles Thursday #9
No. Print out 3 copies - ms liberty Thursday #13
Exactly.. mountain grammy Thursday #23
Or post it on the company bulletin board, assuming you have one...nt Wounded Bear Thursday #34
The offended person would probably consider that harassment. LisaM Thursday #108
HR can show it to her, that is the point. ms liberty Thursday #109
and at SOME point demand an apology.... democratsruletheday Thursday #14
this!!! Celerity Thursday #35
Use uninformed delicate flower Aviation Pro Thursday #41
When I was in high school, back in the Bronze Age, a very naive and foolishly 'helpful' classmate Attilatheblond Thursday #53
I guarantee that student grew up and voted for Trump three times. yardwork Thursday #58
This was in Orange County, Ca, and her family were rigerous about their 'traditional bible' church attendence Attilatheblond Thursday #63
Your post brought back unpleasant memories of that type of "sweet" girl. yardwork Thursday #64
Would biracials be chocolate marshmellows? flor-de-jasmim Thursday #77
LOL Throw in a couple Hispanics and ya got s'mores! Attilatheblond Thursday #80
i hate these people who go behind my back and whine to someone else and dont apologise to me AllaN01Bear Thursday #65
How would they feel BonnieJW Thursday #72
It is our history Bluetus Thursday #69
I knew someone who got in trouble for saying, "frijoles negros." FSogol Thursday #4
No way John Coktosten Thursday #21
They Voted For Cantaloupe Caligula The Corpulent... GB_RN Thursday #26
Haha John Coktosten Thursday #27
Thanks! GB_RN Thursday #31
Having someone get offended when you say "frijoles negros" is the least of your worries today whopis01 Thursday #29
I went to a dentist years ago who was a MAGA type. He was whining about all the 'illegals' travelingthrulife Thursday #42
Goes to show you stupid people can get advanced degrees. nt Wednesdays Thursday #73
It's a furrin' language. CanonRay Thursday #66
There should be no problem, as long as they pronounce it "NAY-gross" JustABozoOnThisBus Thursday #37
OK, here's what I'd do. ananda Thursday #5
It Was The Name Of The League! ProfessorGAC Thursday #7
Even as recently as the early 1970's tcfrogs Thursday #8
This is ForgedCrank Thursday #12
Yes - exactly. And it won't end anytime soon. whopis01 Thursday #33
The color Black in Spanish is Negro (soft e like Negative, not hard e like Knee) ... aggiesal Thursday #46
Exactly, it's pronounced "nehgro" neh as in meh with a slight roll to the gr ms liberty Thursday #87
I'm really sorry this is happening to you. yardwork Thursday #10
I would want HR to formally educate the snitch Tanuki Thursday #68
Any escalation will probably hurt the OP more. yardwork Thursday #81
I met W James Cobbin while doing a job at his museum in Youngstown Orrex Thursday #11
Continue to tell the story as it happened. barbtries Thursday #15
I would tell the that, since this is an issue, all employees need to have a list created. OldBaldy1701E Thursday #16
Or make it fun. Ask them to google "Geddy Lee and baseball" ms liberty Thursday #17
Get the friend you were chatting to to confirm, either to the HR person or in writing, that it was the museum name muriel_volestrangler Thursday #18
Attorney - Get An Attorney Now - You're Being Targeted And Attacked MayReasonRule Thursday #19
Geddy Lee Tadams01KC Thursday #20
How old is the person who complained about this? 3catwoman3 Thursday #38
Wow. I would be giddy about that, particularly now ms liberty Thursday #97
Interesting FHRRK Thursday #22
Just tell them you didn't realize a trip to KC was so controversial. xmas74 Thursday #24
For God's sake, don't tell them what NAACP stands for. nt chowmama Thursday #25
I was just thinking the same thing. So silly Callie1979 Thursday #43
National Association for the Advancement of Colored People ... aggiesal Thursday #57
The implication is that the person who got yorkster Thursday #70
Similar, because referring to a black person as "colored" is generally unacceptable in the same way "negro" is. nt thesquanderer Thursday #71
On top of all that, Black people actually perferred to be called Black. (This is based on the movie Red Tails) ... aggiesal Thursday #92
Depends though Mosby Thursday #96
Give them a link to the Negro Leagues malaise Thursday #28
Have a screen shot of their website with the title and logo of the museum JT45242 Thursday #30
I was reported for using "SNAFU" in an email Ponietz Thursday #32
Situation Normal, all fouled up... Wounded Bear Thursday #36
Wait til they learn "niggardly" kiri Thursday #39
I have stopped using that word because it's too easily misunderstood. yardwork Thursday #47
Years ago I used the word "niggardly" during a meeting to describe a low-ball settlement offer. sop Thursday #105
Ask if you should stop donating ... JustABozoOnThisBus Thursday #40
Ask for a copy of the company policy that forbids the word n/t Shrek Thursday #44
Poor HR gulliver Thursday #45
I agree that the lying snitch is not to be trusted. yardwork Thursday #49
THIS is the kind of nonsense the RW loves to point out. Callie1979 Thursday #48
The RW causes this kind of situation more often than not. yardwork Thursday #51
You might keep your mind open to the possibility.... 70sEraVet Thursday #50
Snitching to HR is never a good faith move. yardwork Thursday #54
I guess I always worked for smaller companies. 70sEraVet Thursday #67
Lie down on the floor, kick your feet, rip your clothes, and cry like a baby. hay rick Thursday #52
Whatever happens, please tell us about the outcome rurallib Thursday #55
My husband and I attended a function several years ago at this museum. mommymarine2003 Thursday #56
Many moons ago, a member of the Nixon Whitehouse 3Hotdogs Thursday #59
it was preferred by my community in my own time bigtree Thursday #60
Ignorance angrychair Thursday #61
Taken out of context "Negro" is colonial stollen Thursday #62
It sounds like you have an overactive co-worker. hamsterjill Thursday #74
Sounds like you have an Ass Kissing Republican coworker. Emile Thursday #75
I would definitely insist on an apology Grim Chieftain Thursday #76
I would just insist that they never get to mention it again. Iggo Thursday #88
Simple - Have the website of the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum cued up on your phone. flashman13 Thursday #78
examples DAML Thursday #79
I remember their commercials from Saturday morning cartoons questionseverything Thursday #106
Sort of on-topic but not really Shrek Thursday #82
That's funny. I was reported here for something kind of like that (but not really.) Iggo Thursday #83
Outrage Factory hard at work at your place of employment. n/t flvegan Thursday #84
Counterclaim that the displayed denial of a named business denotes a racism against blacks. Festivito Thursday #85
Go to the web SocialDemocrat61 Thursday #86
Several years ago when I was still working, I was miffed about something that happened. MIButterfly Thursday #89
The complainant was malicious Bobstandard Thursday #90
There are no facts, only interpretations. Nietzsche Ping Tung Thursday #91
Ask everyone at the meeting if they know what NAACP stands for. johnp3907 Thursday #93
Cool story. Mosby Thursday #94
There seems to be some confusion in this thread. And... LAS14 Thursday #95
Cool story! Mysterian Thursday #98
What a cool story! obamanut2012 Thursday #99
I am so tired of stupid people who can't mind their own d*** business FoxNewsSucks Thursday #100
Get a lawyer, get a lawyer, document everything, get a lawyer, and document everything. unblock Thursday #101
is there an official record of this, er, UTTER NONSENSE Skittles Thursday #102
Show up with an attorney. Just like talking to the cops. Hotler Thursday #103
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. It was called the Negro League and is still called the Negro League. Vinca Thursday #104
People are idiots. I don't miss the days of someone mishearing something that was not said to them. dem4decades Thursday #107
My company's HR, now called "People", is the most overhead-iest of all overhead... Mark.b2 Thursday #110
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