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24. There's another good reason not to put wills and other documents in safe deposit boxes.
Fri Oct 10, 2025, 08:55 AM
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Unless you assign an heir as co-owner of the bank account and give them a key, nobody will have access to the documents until probate is complete.

If the will and other documents are locked away, how do you do probate? It becomes a catch 22.

My mom made me co-owner of her bank account and gave me a key to her safe deposit box, where she insisted on keeping her will, etc.

The day after she passed away I went to the bank, collected the contents, and began the probate process as her executor. I was named executor in the will and trust that was in the safe deposit box. If I hadn't been on that account nobody would have been able to access her will! (Try showing up at a bank and asking to access a deceased family member's safe deposit box. Even if you have a key they won't let you into it unless you're a co-owner of the account. Banks take this very seriously. It's not like the post office.)

MM is right. Keep your will at home in a fire-safe box and give your trusted heir a key.

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"Don't put such documents in a safe deposit box at your bank. If the bank fails, they'll be lost forever." Sogo Thursday #1
Why the question marks. When banks close, it's verry difficult MineralMan Thursday #3
Another thing to know about safe deposit boxes...... popsdenver Thursday #11
What MM said is true BumRushDaShow Thursday #9
let me get this straight... ret5hd Thursday #20
"3) you arrive there and the box was already unlocked (drilled) while NOT in your presence" BumRushDaShow Friday #21
There's another good reason not to put wills and other documents in safe deposit boxes. yardwork Friday #24
Great advice. This afternoon, I have been doing just what you are advising. John1956PA Thursday #2
Smart! MineralMan Thursday #4
Just before I read your OP, I printed out my application for two copies of my birth certificate. John1956PA Thursday #12
I would also suggest..... lastlib Thursday #5
I already keep that in the safe. Along with all my account links. haele Thursday #8
That's standard procedure in places subject to wildfire. Have had one for years. usonian Thursday #6
Good advice. ancianita Thursday #10
Fuel stabilizer WmChris Friday #23
Have most together. Clouds Passing Thursday #7
I thought I had all my stuff together, but realize... Trueblue Texan Thursday #13
Regarding Passports PhylliPretzel Thursday #14
i had mine in a bank safe deposit , but , the bank kept raising the fee on me so i bought a fire safe the size of a AllaN01Bear Thursday #15
As a back-up, take cellphone photos of all these documents and store them Totally Tunsie Thursday #16
My grandfather had three different birthdays, which caused some problems when he died. hunter Thursday #17
The MAGATs are destroying the ways that America really was great. yardwork Friday #25
Half of those are in my Safety Dep Box, the rest BigmanPigman Thursday #18
Death certificates if your spouse passed away Marthe48 Thursday #19
Yes! MineralMan Friday #22
A few more things: Lochloosa Friday #26
Yes. Stocks left behind can be a real problem for heirs. MineralMan Friday #27
My father retired from GE after 30 years. It's trading in the 290 range right now. Lochloosa Friday #31
I have all of those documents in a safe place. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #28
Smart! MineralMan Friday #29
I plan to renew my Passport before I leave for Hawaii in January. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #30
My stuff is where it's been the last 40 something years: in a fireproof safe. mucholderthandirt Saturday #32
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