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usonian

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14. Short answer

Sun Sep 28, 2025, 07:18 PM

Sep 28

Maybe that person was ready to keel over without it, or buy some spoiled food instead of good food, and it damn sure ain't coming from the U.S. Government.

My motto (based on experience)

Never postpone doing a good deed.
The opportunity may never come again.

🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷 Much good karma.
🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷 have you created.

And carry some smaller bills next time.
There. Karma earned and lesson learned.

The karma will return.
If not, we good folks will take care of it.
You are not alone.

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So why do I feel guilty? [View all] 1monster Sep 28 OP

Impulsive good deeds are the best kind I think. Irish_Dem Sep 28 #1

You did good,1monster. sheshe2 Sep 28 #2

A nice gesture snowybirdie Sep 28 #3

Giving kcoates Sep 28 #4

I've done things like this before. LuckyCharms Sep 28 #5

Thank you. 1monster Sep 28 #6

Inner voice giveth and inner voice taketh away. Moral: don't listen to inner voices Bernardo de La Paz Sep 28 #7

I guess most of us have some form of PTSD... 1monster Sep 28 #11

Some therapists make a distinction between inner critic (attacking) and inner voice (supportive) Bernardo de La Paz Sep 28 #18

I don't know any women who don't 2nd guess themselves. 1WorldHope Sep 28 #8

So I guess that is the real question... why do we 1monster Sep 28 #12

It is a useful internal function that easily gets out of hand, like a million things like say vehicle maintenance Bernardo de La Paz Sep 28 #22

Regarding, "So the question is" .. So we are easier for the patriarchy to control. 1WorldHope Sep 28 #36

I'm guessing it's mostly pure habit. soldierant Sep 28 #51

You did something nice malaise Sep 28 #9

Ultimately the bottom line both about the action and how to deal with it. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 28 #23

This always helps me quiet that mini mean me in my head pat_k Sep 28 #10

You did a nice thing Wifes husband Sep 28 #13

Short answer usonian Sep 28 #14

You did a nice thing. TomSlick Sep 28 #15

You did good. You made the world a little better today Jerry2144 Sep 28 #16

We live in a society that is performative: Raven123 Sep 28 #17

Can you imagine the joy you gave that woman? PittBlue Sep 28 #19

Feeling good because you do good... viva la Sep 28 #20

You did good kid. Don't let those voices dilute your good deed. patphil Sep 28 #21

Please forgive me for my slant on this, JMCKUSICK Sep 28 #24

Honestly, when I see homeless people, I don't 1monster Sep 28 #54

Thank you for not taking my post negatively. JMCKUSICK Sep 28 #59

I've known some street folks who, with a little help, turned their lives around... 70sEraVet Sep 28 #25

This is what I do Tom Dyer Sep 28 #26

You are a wise person to know all of those sides to yourself. mjvpi Sep 28 #27

You did good. Don't let Republican voices take over your head and claim you applegrove Sep 28 #28

Money comes and money goes and money comes again. colorado_ufo Sep 28 #29

My own philosophy was Warpy Sep 28 #30

You did something nice for someone! cate94 Sep 28 #31

A really fine thing for you to do for someone you don't even know. I do have a suggestion, tho.. Deuxcents Sep 28 #32

1monster came from a book I read many, many years ago... 1monster Sep 28 #55

Perhaps she needed it more Keepthesoulalive Sep 28 #33

You have NOTHING to feel guilty about. You saw a beautiful rainbow, niyad Sep 28 #34

Forgive yourself ZDU Sep 28 #35

May your generous act come back to you 100 fold! sprinkleeninow Sep 28 #37

You will realize a benefit for your generosity. Mblaze Sep 28 #38

The way you describe it, Glorious bastard Sep 28 #39

As someone who once relied on the kindness of a stranger berniesandersmittens Sep 28 #40

Socks are damned expensive these days... 1monster Sep 28 #56

It made you feel good and it made her feel good. StarryNite Sep 28 #41

Don't feel guilty Glen Livid Sep 28 #42

A favorite line I have used for myself and often say to others... llmart Sep 28 #53

MOST OF US -- in fact, all but a very few of us . . . AverageOldGuy Sep 28 #43

Don't let that sour voice overwhelm your goodness Easterncedar Sep 28 #44

You did what you thought was right IbogaProject Sep 28 #45

Think of it as a deposit to the Karma Bank moonbeam23 Sep 28 #46

Doing something nice for someone else is a very selfish act tavernier Sep 28 #47

I think you have a very healthy and active conscience. SleeplessinSoCal Sep 28 #48

I remember the day I closed on buying my first house... Tommy Carcetti Sep 28 #49

December 28, 2020 mnhtnbb Sep 28 #50

Why are you so mean to yourself? Because patriarchal society tells women niyad Sep 28 #52

Those inner voices can be serious assholes. Maru Kitteh Sep 28 #57

When someone who doesn't have a lot GIVES, it is truly a beautiful thing. hamsterjill Sep 28 #58

No act of kindness is ever wasted BWdem4life Sep 29 #60

Poverty is generous KentuckyWoman Sep 29 #61

Its called, "Pay It Forward" Bayard Sep 29 #62

You did good. MuseRider Sep 30 #63