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meadowlander

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36. I'm not really into comic books,
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 05:26 PM
Jul 2023

but I've seen most of the Marvel films and a lot of them are really good because they aren't ultimately about comic books - they're about friendship, family, overcoming our weaknesses, standing up for what's right, creative problem solving, etc. All the big universal stuff.

I'm not really into sports but Bend it Like Beckham is one of my favorite films and I love Hoosiers, Ted Lasso, Breaking Away, etc. They aren't really about the sports but about telling human stories well.

So if the Barbie movie gets great reviews and wins awards, I'll probably see it even though I'm not that into Barbie. From what I can see in the trailer, it's not a film "about dolls" but a film about growing up and moving beyond fantasy while retaining that spark and passion that makes you you and gives you joy. Sounds interesting and it would be a shame to write it off because "it's just a film about dolls".

And as I said above, Barbie and Ken's ages are completely beside the point and always have been within the stories themselves. The point is that your age is the least interesting thing about you compared with what you do. And that's a powerful and necessary point to make to women and girls (still) who are told by our culture that their age contributes to their worth.

Ken's point is that he supports Barbie no matter what and doesn't feel threatened by her success. Who gives a shit if he is 17, 42 or 109? He's there to be a role model for little girls of the type of man they should be looking for in their life when so many of them have fathers and brothers and uncles and grandfathers and peers who tell them to sit at the back of the bus and not make too much fuss. That outshining a man makes them a "bitch" and that nobody will love them unless they subsume all of their life's ambitions into propping other people up.

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With a side of beans lame54 Jul 2023 #1
Or coleslaw and a bottle of Ski. jaxexpat Jul 2023 #5
In 1999, the SKI can and logo was redesigned with the phrase "Taste the Wake." Celerity Jul 2023 #54
And a bunch of plastic fruit. calimary Jul 2023 #42
You have already put more thought into this than they have, just to make that quip. RockRaven Jul 2023 #2
Good point! calimary Jul 2023 #9
In a nutshell... AltairIV Jul 2023 #18
A concise statement LastDemocratInSC Jul 2023 #19
"Nothing you say will change my mind." czarjak Jul 2023 #53
your neighbour is a cognitively flawed, scientifically programmed wazzock Celerity Jul 2023 #55
Wrong, and damned proud of it. Republican Strategist. czarjak Jul 2023 #56
Wrong? Anyone who thinks that objective facts are negotiable is a fool in my book, & a dangerous one Celerity Jul 2023 #57
Talking about my neighbor being the proud boy. czarjak Jul 2023 #58
How my "willfully ignorant" fundie zealots family were registered Dems at their end Backseat Driver Jul 2023 #63
I like it republianmushroom Jul 2023 #3
Oddly I knew nothing about this movie until I saw posts ALBliberal Jul 2023 #4
gotta wear pink, you know. Conjuay Jul 2023 #41
I have no interest in, or intention to see this movie. rsdsharp Jul 2023 #6
same. AND orleans Jul 2023 #10
The only interest I had in Barbie growing up rsdsharp Jul 2023 #11
i laughed out loud when i read this! thanks for the laugh; much appreciated. nt orleans Jul 2023 #38
I use to tell my sister... William Gustafson Jul 2023 #50
I used Barbie & Ken to conduct sex ed classes NJCher Jul 2023 #13
that's pretty funny. nt orleans Jul 2023 #39
Same here. kskiska Jul 2023 #37
Barbie is plastic orthoclad Jul 2023 #17
I certainly see your point. soldierant Jul 2023 #21
Besides, the best of Barbie has already been done. CrispyQ Jul 2023 #22
My fave portrayal of Barbie was in Toy Story 2 Wednesdays Jul 2023 #32
Barbie's not my thing meadowlander Jul 2023 #25
I'm not being judgmental about other people's passions. rsdsharp Jul 2023 #34
I'm not really into comic books, meadowlander Jul 2023 #36
Nicely said, and you made your point without name calling. rsdsharp Jul 2023 #40
I'm not asking you to see the movie. meadowlander Jul 2023 #52
You are seriously stretching to try to be offended by what I wrote. rsdsharp Jul 2023 #64
"a role model for little girls of the type of man they should be looking for in their life" Snooper9 Jul 2023 #62
LOL - good one! PatrickforB Jul 2023 #7
The movie is just one big ad for Mattel and all the collectors who Wonder Why Jul 2023 #8
People are actually saying that? How bizarre. ShazzieB Jul 2023 #12
SNORT!!!!!! niyad Jul 2023 #14
Oh, that's perfect!!! PatSeg Jul 2023 #15
We already call half of 'em Barbies, and not in a nice way. Iggo Jul 2023 #16
Are barbies like karens? housecat Jul 2023 #28
Simn. (lol...they wouldn't let me put an "o" with an accent mark in the subject line.) Iggo Jul 2023 #35
That's great! 👍👍👍👍 MiHale Jul 2023 #20
Well done. Far more succinct than... paleotn Jul 2023 #23
They are the same people who believe that mermaids (which don't actually exist) ... 11 Bravo Jul 2023 #24
Hilarious! MLAA Jul 2023 #26
They have always Snackshack Jul 2023 #27
Three guesses why meadowlander Jul 2023 #30
Barbie - main trailer Jim__ Jul 2023 #29
The angry liars on Fox "News" keep the bumpkins in a perpetual state of outrage Mysterian Jul 2023 #31
Any man who thinks that his sexuality is being threatened by the Barbie movie... Initech Jul 2023 #33
I'm so sick of these bs feigned outrages that are so STUPID! kimbutgar Jul 2023 #43
I have no interest in anything Barbie, but if anyone can pull this... TreasonousBastard Jul 2023 #44
Yep. Plus a great cast. Robbie and Gosling are both just great. JanMichael Jul 2023 #51
How many boys tortured dolls or just made fun of them? LiberalFighter Jul 2023 #45
Gotta share this with my son-in-law, pun master! nt Trueblue Texan Jul 2023 #46
Oh! That is effing funny!!! nt AKwannabe Jul 2023 #47
Gotta share this with my son-in-law, pun master! nt Trueblue Texan Jul 2023 #48
Without dolls, some guys don't know what a girl looks like Tetrachloride Jul 2023 #49
Barbenheimer Danascot Jul 2023 #59
Love it wryter2000 Jul 2023 #60
i hate it whey they say" turn gay" ive always been gay and mum knew it but AllaN01Bear Jul 2023 #61
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