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CousinIT

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2. They are facing a world where they will be reproductive slaves...
Mon Feb 13, 2023, 02:11 PM
Feb 2023

....abortion being restricted or banned, along with contraception. They are bullied, judged more harshly than boys in every way, devalued (if they don't look "f*ckable" they're useless), and coerced or forced into sex - at school, sometimes at home and in the future, at work. They STILL do not have equal opportunity with boys and still cannot expect to be paid the same as them with equal qualifications and education in many or even most fields. If they decide to become wives and/or moms, that will cost them a LOT of career ground and individual financial stability and independence since the US has no decent childcare system or nationwide paid family or maternity leave (ie: required by federal law). They are NOT supported in any aspect of their lives -- OTHER than as breeding apparatus. They are constantly vulnerable and subjected to the oppression and misogynist judgement of social, legal, educational, professional, and economic systems. ESPECIALLY if they are girls or women of color.

Who WOULDN'T find that depressing? I agree with the other respondent here. This isn't new. It's just that the numbers are now more accurate. And truth is, it's probably even worse than that.

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I doubt these numbers are new, rather, becoming more accurate. Coventina Feb 2023 #1
I'm in an all-women book group. Sky Jewels Feb 2023 #3
That fits well with what I have heard when wnylib Feb 2023 #37
Very true, very accurate Sky Jewels Feb 2023 #54
I got so annoyed and angry over harassment in workplaces that wnylib Feb 2023 #55
Oh my gosh. So much pain and suffering inflicted upon women in small and very large ways, Sky Jewels Feb 2023 #56
To make it even worse, my friend was the shy one in our group wnylib Feb 2023 #57
Wow, what a resilient person. Sky Jewels Feb 2023 #58
I didn't even tell all of what she experienced wnylib Feb 2023 #59
I can imagine it increasing with the age of the internet and the lack of skills young men chowder66 Feb 2023 #4
I think you're exactly right about that Warpy Feb 2023 #36
You beat me to the post. This has happened for ages just as you raccoon Feb 2023 #38
Have you ever considered letting him know? Polybius Feb 2023 #51
I've thought about it, but I don't think I ever will. Coventina Feb 2023 #53
They are facing a world where they will be reproductive slaves... CousinIT Feb 2023 #2
Yes it is going to get much worse for young women. Irish_Dem Feb 2023 #13
The men who are applying force and limiting options are clearly Harker Feb 2023 #27
Yes if women are pregnant all the time, they must rely on husbands. Irish_Dem Feb 2023 #29
So sad! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #5
I agree that's a large mzmolly Feb 2023 #8
Yw! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #19
Like tackle football, and gunz, and cults, no one wants to admit the damage social media causes lindysalsagal Feb 2023 #31
Wow! Couple that with this 60 Minutes "Brainhacking" SheltieLover Feb 2023 #45
That's so very mzmolly Feb 2023 #44
... SheltieLover Feb 2023 #46
Much of the teen suicidal ideation I saw when working with teens was due to social media. SheltieLover Feb 2023 #6
Social media IMO plays a huge part. Diamond_Dog Feb 2023 #10
Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #14
Social media has been a huge problem. Harassment of girls & women just moved online... CousinIT Feb 2023 #23
Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #47
Young girls, teenagers and adult women NEED to learn self defense MagickMuffin Feb 2023 #7
Rape Mossfern Feb 2023 #9
The vast majority of rape, sexual assault and sexual abuse is proximal, meaning it's someone the WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2023 #11
Absofuckingloutely! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #15
I think that more rapes are coerced by family/authority figures Tumbulu Feb 2023 #30
I assume you are correct. Adults won't listen or kids know they won't be believed lindysalsagal Feb 2023 #32
When the "me too" movement was gaining traction Diamond_Dog Feb 2023 #12
And Psych 101 & human growth & dev should be mandatory SheltieLover Feb 2023 #16
Great idea. 👍 Diamond_Dog Feb 2023 #17
Why aren't those mandatory? SheltieLover Feb 2023 #18
This would benefit boys AND girls Diamond_Dog Feb 2023 #20
Jee, it's almost as if someone doesn't want kids to live consciously. SheltieLover Feb 2023 #22
A periodic chat with a mental health counselor sounds wonderful! ShazzieB Feb 2023 #35
Same here, ShazzieB! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #39
I hear you, and I see you! ShazzieB Feb 2023 #48
How is your eye? SheltieLover Feb 2023 #49
Much better, thanks! ShazzieB Feb 2023 #50
So glad to heae! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #52
I'd highly recommend some martial arts training. calimary Feb 2023 #33
Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #40
we need to find solace in something Chakaconcarne Feb 2023 #21
Agree that we need to help our kiddos MontanaMama Feb 2023 #25
Sadly, SpamWyzer Feb 2023 #24
Welcome to DU! MontanaMama Feb 2023 #26
Welcome to DU, SpamWyzer! calimary Feb 2023 #34
Absolutely! Both genders benefit, mind, bod, soul, & protectively! SheltieLover Feb 2023 #41
2021 isolation was an unusual year. I'd be careful about drawing solid conclusions Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2023 #28
Unfortunately, those numbers increase every year. Torchlight Feb 2023 #42
I agree with other comments here; also, more than ever, snot Feb 2023 #43
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