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slightlv

(6,833 posts)
35. Cal,
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:59 PM
Mar 2022

I don't think the younger generations understand or truly realize what can happen... and that we're on the road currently towards it happening.

Those of us women who are 60+ should remember well those days when we couldn't have a credit card in our name, nor a bank account. Nor could we buy or hold property in our name. Crap, here in KS, in the 80's, I had to have my husband notarize a notice giving me the okay to license our car at the DMV!

I remember who swaths of job types and career fields being denied women because they could cause harm to an unborn child. This, even if childbearing was not on the menu for the woman at all, for whatever reason. And if you were too old to have a child, you were basically treated as worthless.

To escape this, I went into a newly opened field to women in the military. But even being Active Duty didn't give me any privileges in the private world. When we bought our first house, my husband's name was on the title, but not mine as owner.

This is the world we lived in... where abortions were performed in back alleys and basements. Where if you married outside your race, you kept to your house and weren't seen in town together, yet you were gossiped about endlessly. We've talked to our kids and grandkids about this, but they haven't lived it. I don't think they can envision what it means to live like that; or that it can so readily happen to them. Lack of imagination? I don't know. I only know my own daughter doesn't exhibit the kind of concern that I'd expect to see from her at this point on the road to oblivion. (sigh)

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There's a reason why they used to hang traitors C_U_L8R Mar 2022 #1
I agree I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #20
We can't even deal with 1/6 organizers who almost killed our VP, 14 months later. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #34
Quem custodiet ipsos custodes? Ocelot II Mar 2022 #2
Public sentiment continues to build. traitortrump and putin have been, and continue empedocles Mar 2022 #12
If we can do well in November - a lot of these kind of things can be set straight empedocles Mar 2022 #3
Why do we have to wait until November? Hassin Bin Sober Mar 2022 #7
Agree. Time to clean house. wnylib Mar 2022 #40
And if we don't, the 1/6 Commission is over and nothing will happen at all. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #36
Disgusting. Horrifying. IngridsLittleAngel Mar 2022 #4
Trumpism is a symptom, not the cause. Caliman73 Mar 2022 #8
I know Drumpf didn't create it... IngridsLittleAngel Mar 2022 #10
That is true. Caliman73 Mar 2022 #13
The past... IngridsLittleAngel Mar 2022 #14
Not uglier really, just more visible. Caliman73 Mar 2022 #17
It all needs to be fought back against... IngridsLittleAngel Mar 2022 #26
Can't argue with that. Caliman73 Mar 2022 #27
Yep! It ALL needs to be fought back against! calimary Mar 2022 #28
You are correct. He brought it out, encouraged it and made it fashionable. It worked. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #37
+1, Putrid's Whore related to America's worse angles and they came out in droves uponit7771 Mar 2022 #51
K&R onetexan Mar 2022 #30
Yeah, not just this country ymetca Mar 2022 #31
Cal, slightlv Mar 2022 #35
No we/they do not. Caliman73 Mar 2022 #44
Our British heritage. wnylib Mar 2022 #41
Great post! Spot on nt Tickle Mar 2022 #43
Regarding Black people being lynched, I recently found out that my paternal ggrandfather was lynched The_REAL_Ecumenist Mar 2022 #46
Horrific stories, that are shocking but not surprising if you know electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #53
I am currently re-reading DemocraticPatriot Mar 2022 #54
Disgusting. highplainsdem Mar 2022 #5
Then they should be removed. We can't have traitors in our National Security Agencies. rockfordfile Mar 2022 #6
Set Traps BlueIdaho Mar 2022 #9
It should be straightforward to clean house. nt Cognitive_Resonance Mar 2022 #11
This is what I have suspected... orwell Mar 2022 #15
ffffffuck, uponit7771 Mar 2022 #16
when the leaders of the insurrection are not prosecuted, it only fuels these guys fire Mr. Sparkle Mar 2022 #18
That's why CONSEQUENCES are an absolute, urgent MUST! calimary Mar 2022 #29
Is this source reliable? MineralMan Mar 2022 #19
Hard to say SpankMe Mar 2022 #32
Here's an article in The Daily Beast Nevilledog Mar 2022 #48
Not surpising when Armed Forces Radio and TV play FOX and played Rush Limbaugh and hate radio 2Gingersnaps Mar 2022 #21
Agree, but the damage has been done and the cult has been nurtured for 40 years. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #42
A number of years ago I was at a dinner party and a retired couple there were, lets say mitch96 Mar 2022 #22
Who was the president at that time? Just wondering. Boomerproud Mar 2022 #47
Obama... They HATED him. Ironically everything we were saying about TFG they were saying mitch96 Mar 2022 #49
I KNEW it had to be a Democrat. Boomerproud Mar 2022 #50
They were long time employees so they went thru a few administrations but you could see mitch96 Mar 2022 #52
++ llashram Mar 2022 #23
I'm writing my congressman and will ask for some house cleaning SpankMe Mar 2022 #24
Then roatate them out of... 2naSalit Mar 2022 #25
Not enough information Warpy Mar 2022 #33
They need to be outed and purged. LiberalFighter Mar 2022 #38
It's always the "retired" whistleblower... EarthFirst Mar 2022 #39
Who watches the watchers? GPV Mar 2022 #45
Root, and toss these vile people out of their jobs!!! electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #55
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