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slightlv

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16. Experienced something similar at my Dad's funeral
Sat Dec 11, 2021, 07:53 PM
Dec 2021

We got a sermon built around good works alone will not save you, and then followed up by what a shame Daddy wasn't "saved." My father was the kindest, most gentle man you could ever meet. Would give you the shirt off his back, if you needed it, even if it was his last. Grew up during the Great Depression; no one he knew ever went without food, be it man or beast. And would you believe this "preacher" was our cousin? Yeah, I'd lay odds he voted for Trump, too. All I knew I sat there and cried tears of anger. My girlfriend came up and held me, as I held my Mother. I couldn't believe our cousin was doing this to us. He knew my Dad; accepted his help whenever he needed it. I rode to the cemetery with my friends. They were all so mad. So was I. I went in to the funeral knowing I wouldn't agree with a lot, 'cause I'm Pagan, but I went with an open mind and open heart... but I didn't expect to hear my Dad, who opened my whole world to me, abased in such a way. To this day, I won't have anything to do with that side of the family. They call themselves charismatic evangelicals; I just call them RWNJs!

Sorry, this just hit a chord with me today. I've been missing my Dad a lot lately, yet so glad he's not here to see what's happening to the country. Your message just opened the door to one more memory.

BTW... I vote for the chair, too!

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Wow. What an evil pastor. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2021 #1
That is Hideous! leftieNanner Dec 2021 #2
An Altar call KentuckyWoman Dec 2021 #6
how about going up to the alter..... RussBLib Dec 2021 #12
I will assume that that "call to Jesus" involves money dhol82 Dec 2021 #29
Post removed Post removed Dec 2021 #3
What a terrible thing to say to the OP mcar Dec 2021 #5
I was about to say the same but was informed the thread was hidden Hekate Dec 2021 #9
Glad that happened mcar Dec 2021 #14
Would the family not have consulted with this pastor before the services Bev54 Dec 2021 #4
It was at the church the wife's Mom went to. KentuckyWoman Dec 2021 #11
I gather she did not approve of her s-i-l Bev54 Dec 2021 #13
I'm curious about the reaction of the mourners to this BS MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #23
I am so sorry you and the bereaved family had to sit thru that evil heartless display... Hekate Dec 2021 #7
I feel something very sick and evil has invaded bluestarone Dec 2021 #8
I'm pretty sure you're absolutely on target. BComplex Dec 2021 #39
Yea i hear ya! bluestarone Dec 2021 #40
KentuckyWoman Hekate Dec 2021 #10
Horrible, abusive. JohnnyLib2 Dec 2021 #15
Experienced something similar at my Dad's funeral slightlv Dec 2021 #16
Hey. KentuckyWoman Dec 2021 #22
I'm sorry you and your family had to go through that MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #24
Chair is kinda heavy and difficult to wield. I suggest a Bible... Wounded Bear Dec 2021 #17
Good option. KentuckyWoman Dec 2021 #31
I had a very similar thing happen years ago SCantiGOP Dec 2021 #18
I was worried for you. Nice to see you are safe from the tornadoes. boston bean Dec 2021 #19
I have seen this happen twice. PurgedVoter Dec 2021 #20
It's the other way around. Aussie105 Dec 2021 #21
I am sorry. sheshe2 Dec 2021 #25
I do not mind being worm food someday. Jon King Dec 2021 #26
Whatever happened to: Butterflylady Dec 2021 #27
I'm sorry this happened, however I'm not surprised FakeNoose Dec 2021 #28
"Well ain't he all ate up with it" ymetca Dec 2021 #30
Oh I thank you. KentuckyWoman Dec 2021 #33
Aw shucks! ymetca Dec 2021 #35
It's hard to believe that a pastor would treat a grieving family so cruely, brer cat Dec 2021 #32
I'm sorry your family had to endure that. iemanja Dec 2021 #34
You are right. A funeral is not the place to preach salvation warnings. GoodRaisin Dec 2021 #36
In this preacher's case, I think a brick would be more appropriate DFW Dec 2021 #37
I've heard it said that those who have been abused Sogo Dec 2021 #38
Our daughter died 10 months ago of cancer. We didn't have a rabbi or religious service, marie999 Dec 2021 #41
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