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deurbano

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24. Oh, geez. BEST wishes for a speedy recovery!

Fri Jan 29, 2021, 06:42 PM

Jan 2021

It sucks to have to deal with that anytime, but especially when everything else has gone to hell.

My (immediate) family has been more appropriately responsive to the current crisis than yours, but I still feel like I'm the one with the burden of trying to keep them all alive, and that I need to remind them constantly. I know they think I'm somewhat paranoid, but they also rely on me to be the family superego, and not just during a pandemic!

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'I have cried. I have begged. I have yelled': Couples clash over COVID-19 [View all] SharonClark Jan 2021 OP

Good for her! This is more than toxic. He's threatening her life. NurseJackie Jan 2021 #1

Exactly. sheshe2 Jan 2021 #11

Divorce the cruel, insensitive, and STUPID bastard... Raster Jan 2021 #2

That would be my advice. smirkymonkey Jan 2021 #9

His behavior is just plain wrong. Divorce is the answer, this time. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2021 #3

Wow I feel for her The empressof all Jan 2021 #4

Try to get him to double-mask. Or try to find an N95 mask. Since he teaches special ed, maybe japple Jan 2021 #21

ULINE has N 95 masks.. couple bucks each. HUAJIAO Jan 2021 #22

ULINE? tenderfoot Jan 2021 #52

yeah, I found out........ HUAJIAO Jan 2021 #53

Yes, That's the plan The empressof all Jan 2021 #28

Best of luck to you on getting your vaccine. My sister & I just got our 1st one today. japple Jan 2021 #32

Yes, I'm finding it a struggle The empressof all Jan 2021 #35

I can't believe it. I live in Georgia and there are many at-risk people that haven't been able japple Jan 2021 #37

I just randomly got appointments for me and my husband for tomorrow The empressof all Jan 2021 #43

That's great! Persistence pays off. japple Jan 2021 #44

Are you in California? shanti Jan 2021 #50

No...I'm in Washington State... The empressof all Jan 2021 #51

If that's the only issue, maybe divorce is a bit extreme. JustABozoOnThisBus Jan 2021 #5

Extreme? Miguelito Loveless Jan 2021 #8

It's clear there is now a trust rift between them Gore1FL Jan 2021 #13

Agree. But, I have a feeling there were issues before Jan 2020. JustABozoOnThisBus Jan 2021 #14

I agree drmeow Jan 2021 #45

He was willing to put her very life at risk. MLAA Jan 2021 #17

From the article.... irisblue Jan 2021 #30

Especially when he knows she is in a high-risk category. smirkymonkey Jan 2021 #38

Yeah, he's only threatening to kill her. Not such a big deal. Crunchy Frog Jan 2021 #40

She needs to kick his ass to the curb. Lars39 Jan 2021 #6

Agree. And if he wouldn't wear a mask just because it was so very important to her, he needs to go. MLAA Jan 2021 #15

Hubby and I had a few fights over it in the beginning marlakay Jan 2021 #7

I believe you. And businesses too, have had to clash w/ regular customers and such, over the... SWBTATTReg Jan 2021 #10

I was double-masking 24/7 for a while for similar reasons. Ms. Toad Jan 2021 #12

Oh, geez. BEST wishes for a speedy recovery! deurbano Jan 2021 #24

Three surgeries down - Ms. Toad Jan 2021 #27

Wow. Good for you on finding it on your own, and BEST wishes for no reoccurrence! deurbano Jan 2021 #34

Thanks! Ms. Toad Jan 2021 #36

Thanks! My daughter's cough was first misdiagnosed as allergies. (As opposed to a tumor pressing deurbano Jan 2021 #47

Boy do I know that story! Ms. Toad Jan 2021 #49

Domestic Abuse Probably not the first of many other instances Cozmo Jan 2021 #16

If this is the case SlogginThroughIt Jan 2021 #18

That guy is an asshole. 58Sunliner Jan 2021 #19

Husband doesn't love wife. Karadeniz Jan 2021 #20

Pretty obvious. Very sad. hay rick Jan 2021 #29

Send his ass down to the local ER. I'm sure they need volunteers to work with Covid patients, flying_wahini Jan 2021 #23

Respect ad121rome Jan 2021 #25

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I have a friend in the same situation. Her husband has become evangelical, goes to services,no mask Liberty Belle Jan 2021 #31

That really sucks. Over wearing a fucking mask. He has drunk the kool-aid and won't get it until he Evolve Dammit Jan 2021 #33

1. Smother him in his sleep. 2. Blame on covid. FSogol Jan 2021 #39

My husband has been awful during the entire pandemic liberal_mama Jan 2021 #41

Send him to a motel to stay till this thing passes Raine Jan 2021 #42

she's just now figuring out her husband is a selfish asshole? Skittles Jan 2021 #46

That's sad MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #48