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Showing Original Post only (View all)'I have cried. I have begged. I have yelled': Couples clash over COVID-19 [View all]
by Alia E. Dastagir USA TODAY
Patricia Rust is doing everything she can to stay safe during the pandemic. Her husband, however, is not.
Rust, 68, a retired attorney in Clarksville, Tennessee, is militant about mask-wearing and social distancing. But she says her 71-year-old husband believes COVID is no worse than the flu, often refuses to wear a mask and frequently socializes in large groups.
"We just had a fight the other night where I said, 'That's it, we're going to get divorced. I need to stay safe and you refuse to allow me to be safe or feel safe in my own home,'" Rust said. "I have pleaded. I have cried. I have begged. I have yelled. And he refuses to listen to anything I say."
More at source: https://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/news/health/2021/01/29/women-take-covid-19-more-seriously-and-relationships-suffering/4314111001/
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'I have cried. I have begged. I have yelled': Couples clash over COVID-19 [View all]
SharonClark
Jan 2021
OP
Try to get him to double-mask. Or try to find an N95 mask. Since he teaches special ed, maybe
japple
Jan 2021
#21
Best of luck to you on getting your vaccine. My sister & I just got our 1st one today.
japple
Jan 2021
#32
I can't believe it. I live in Georgia and there are many at-risk people that haven't been able
japple
Jan 2021
#37
Agree. And if he wouldn't wear a mask just because it was so very important to her, he needs to go.
MLAA
Jan 2021
#15
I believe you. And businesses too, have had to clash w/ regular customers and such, over the...
SWBTATTReg
Jan 2021
#10
Wow. Good for you on finding it on your own, and BEST wishes for no reoccurrence!
deurbano
Jan 2021
#34
Thanks! My daughter's cough was first misdiagnosed as allergies. (As opposed to a tumor pressing
deurbano
Jan 2021
#47
Send his ass down to the local ER. I'm sure they need volunteers to work with Covid patients,
flying_wahini
Jan 2021
#23
I have a friend in the same situation. Her husband has become evangelical, goes to services,no mask
Liberty Belle
Jan 2021
#31
That really sucks. Over wearing a fucking mask. He has drunk the kool-aid and won't get it until he
Evolve Dammit
Jan 2021
#33