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seabeyond

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1. "NOT to censor misogynistic content." damn good thing us women "own" the B word now and no longer
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 09:50 AM
Sep 2012

offensive.

You either help change it or you actively tolerate it and encourage the perpetrators of violence by doing so.


Earlier this week I wrote about how the use of photography (especially without the subject's consent) intensifies harassment, abuse and violence against women. Quicker than I could type "Feministe" this Change.org petition appeared in my inbox: "Please sign to remove 12 Year Old Slut Memes from Facebook." One of the offending page's profile photos is of a pink-lipped and pouty child (she looks a lot younger than 12) wearing a tank top that reads "I love COCK." Now, anyone can create a page in Facebook (published at Facebook's discretion) and this page doesn't openly advocate violence against 12-year-old sluts. It is, however, the virtual equivalent of street harassment and, as such, demonstrates the way the photography serves to exponentially magnify the effects of subtle and real violence along a broad spectrum.


The page, which posts photographs of girls and women so that others can comment on their sluttiness, has more than 200,000 likes.
good thing it is only SOME men.

For example, "[Satire] Kicking a slut in the vagina and losing your foot inside" is still up and does not specify age of slut to kick and, as Cath Elliot pointed out in the Guardian last year, if "[Humor] Roses are red, violets are blue... I've got a knife, get in the van (and multiple variations thereof), is not "hateful, threatening or gratuitously violent, I don't for the life of me know what is." "Roses are red" is not controversial however, it's just plain [Humor], like these side-splittingly clever pages and communities: "Seeing a Pregnant Woman and Wanting to Punch Her In the Face" (47K); I just want to get drunk and punch the slut in the face; or, accompanied by a photo of a woman down on her knees, hair gripped in a man's hand..."got a sec you slut, Hit the deck you mut (sic)" (Note: this group appears to have been removed since the initial research for this post). "I'd Punch You if You Were a Woman" ("This is a Page fully dedicated to beating woman unmercifully! Haha kidding of course.&quot Then there's You are a Slut Get Hit by a Car and last but not least, in the less than 5 minute survey that I just undertook using search terms like "woman," "hit," "slut," and "punch," is the whole "Shut the F**k Up and Make Me a Sandwich" meme -- punctuated occasionally by hilarious photos of women bleeding and with blackened eyes and bruises. The terms "babe" and "bitch" additions are optional for the search.


it's that so many people find the idea of violence against women so entertaining and that the people running Facebook flaunt such an openly sexist and misogynistic interpretation of their policies.

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Facebook's misogyny problem [View all] lapislzi Sep 2012 OP
"NOT to censor misogynistic content." damn good thing us women "own" the B word now and no longer seabeyond Sep 2012 #1
you mean people tie their profiles to these sites? zazen Sep 2012 #2
If you "like" a page, you are linked to that page. Stargazer09 Sep 2012 #4
it is a skewed world of disrespect to women, that we women are suppose to embrace. seabeyond Sep 2012 #6
If you "like" something, it appears on your profile. lapislzi Sep 2012 #7
I really hate Facebook Stargazer09 Sep 2012 #3
Like any website, you get want you want out of it. bigwillq Sep 2012 #5
That's just the point. They are selective in what they take down. lapislzi Sep 2012 #8
Protest by not using it. bigwillq Sep 2012 #24
Before I give up on FB, which has its uses lapislzi Sep 2012 #25
Good Luck with that. bigwillq Sep 2012 #26
I know. And it makes me tired. lapislzi Sep 2012 #27
Facebook is a part of the Internet M_M Sep 2012 #9
ahhhh, racism and homophobia not allowed. misogyny, meh, deal with it. thank you so much seabeyond Sep 2012 #10
I love you, seabeyond lapislzi Sep 2012 #12
that is good to hear. and... backatcha, woman. thank you seabeyond Sep 2012 #13
I am just so sick of being told I have no sense of humor. lapislzi Sep 2012 #14
" (That doesn't happen, does it??)" seabeyond Sep 2012 #15
Ugh, it is so beyond my tiny comprehension threshold lapislzi Sep 2012 #16
i have been addressing this with kids whenever i see it come up. seabeyond Sep 2012 #19
You got it, Seabeyond. whathehell Sep 2012 #29
Inteteresting.. for the life of me, I can`t see where that poster said what you think he said opiate69 Sep 2012 #32
it is dismissive. racism and homophobia is an "internet issue" and yet.... FB deals seabeyond Sep 2012 #35
See, that`s not what I got out of it.. opiate69 Sep 2012 #39
This does NOT make misogyny ok. ananda Sep 2012 #11
Well then... opiate69 Sep 2012 #33
Christ, what's the deal? Shitty Mitty Sep 2012 #40
I can make you a sandwich if you'd like xmas74 Sep 2012 #17
my husband's sandwiches are to die for. he takes the time to do all kinds of stuff seabeyond Sep 2012 #18
I work in a catering department xmas74 Sep 2012 #20
you are a prize, lol. coolest. seabeyond Sep 2012 #21
Soups are easy. xmas74 Sep 2012 #22
My husband and daughter are epic sandwich makers. lapislzi Sep 2012 #23
"Just kidding" is the first refuge of the violently ignorant when they are called on it. nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2012 #28
Wait - you're expecting a capitalist org in a capitalist country... Taverner Sep 2012 #30
I expect censorship guidelines to be applied consistently and fairly. lapislzi Sep 2012 #34
You may see them as equals. I may see them as equals. But the population at large doesn't Taverner Sep 2012 #41
(high fives Taverner) lapislzi Sep 2012 #43
Wow... I had no idea such things were on Facebook arcane1 Sep 2012 #31
Facebook has 950 million users; pretty much everything's on there by now. (nt) Posteritatis Sep 2012 #36
Well, that's just it. Everything ISN'T. lapislzi Sep 2012 #38
This is why I shun FB. Brigid Sep 2012 #37
They delete breastfeeding photos obamanut2012 Sep 2012 #42
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