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In reply to the discussion: Facebook's misogyny problem [View all]seabeyond
(110,159 posts)1. "NOT to censor misogynistic content." damn good thing us women "own" the B word now and no longer
offensive.
You either help change it or you actively tolerate it and encourage the perpetrators of violence by doing so.
Earlier this week I wrote about how the use of photography (especially without the subject's consent) intensifies harassment, abuse and violence against women. Quicker than I could type "Feministe" this Change.org petition appeared in my inbox: "Please sign to remove 12 Year Old Slut Memes from Facebook." One of the offending page's profile photos is of a pink-lipped and pouty child (she looks a lot younger than 12) wearing a tank top that reads "I love COCK." Now, anyone can create a page in Facebook (published at Facebook's discretion) and this page doesn't openly advocate violence against 12-year-old sluts. It is, however, the virtual equivalent of street harassment and, as such, demonstrates the way the photography serves to exponentially magnify the effects of subtle and real violence along a broad spectrum.
The page, which posts photographs of girls and women so that others can comment on their sluttiness, has more than 200,000 likes.
good thing it is only SOME men.
For example, "[Satire] Kicking a slut in the vagina and losing your foot inside" is still up and does not specify age of slut to kick and, as Cath Elliot pointed out in the Guardian last year, if "[Humor] Roses are red, violets are blue... I've got a knife, get in the van (and multiple variations thereof), is not "hateful, threatening or gratuitously violent, I don't for the life of me know what is." "Roses are red" is not controversial however, it's just plain [Humor], like these side-splittingly clever pages and communities: "Seeing a Pregnant Woman and Wanting to Punch Her In the Face" (47K); I just want to get drunk and punch the slut in the face; or, accompanied by a photo of a woman down on her knees, hair gripped in a man's hand..."got a sec you slut, Hit the deck you mut (sic)" (Note: this group appears to have been removed since the initial research for this post). "I'd Punch You if You Were a Woman" ("This is a Page fully dedicated to beating woman unmercifully! Haha kidding of course."
Then there's You are a Slut Get Hit by a Car and last but not least, in the less than 5 minute survey that I just undertook using search terms like "woman," "hit," "slut," and "punch," is the whole "Shut the F**k Up and Make Me a Sandwich" meme -- punctuated occasionally by hilarious photos of women bleeding and with blackened eyes and bruises. The terms "babe" and "bitch" additions are optional for the search.

it's that so many people find the idea of violence against women so entertaining and that the people running Facebook flaunt such an openly sexist and misogynistic interpretation of their policies.
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"NOT to censor misogynistic content." damn good thing us women "own" the B word now and no longer
seabeyond
Sep 2012
#1
it is a skewed world of disrespect to women, that we women are suppose to embrace.
seabeyond
Sep 2012
#6
ahhhh, racism and homophobia not allowed. misogyny, meh, deal with it. thank you so much
seabeyond
Sep 2012
#10
Inteteresting.. for the life of me, I can`t see where that poster said what you think he said
opiate69
Sep 2012
#32
it is dismissive. racism and homophobia is an "internet issue" and yet.... FB deals
seabeyond
Sep 2012
#35
my husband's sandwiches are to die for. he takes the time to do all kinds of stuff
seabeyond
Sep 2012
#18
"Just kidding" is the first refuge of the violently ignorant when they are called on it. nt
Bernardo de La Paz
Sep 2012
#28
You may see them as equals. I may see them as equals. But the population at large doesn't
Taverner
Sep 2012
#41
Facebook has 950 million users; pretty much everything's on there by now. (nt)
Posteritatis
Sep 2012
#36