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2naSalit

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30. I won't be there

Sat Mar 28, 2020, 01:16 PM

Mar 2020

anyway since she's in San Diego and I'm 1800 miles away. The idea that my sisters can't be there is the hard part as they intended to be with her when she passes, which we are anticipating at any time. She's not well so anything like this virus is going to be the end for her. Knowing that could be what takes her is really hard. We've been hoping she would pass in her sleep, maybe that will happen, maybe not. It's just really hard.

It might get me. I have always tried to outlive my mom and plan to. It will be hard on my sisters when I do go since I'm their last, of three, elder sisters. Time will tell.

Have a great day and enjoy what you have 'cause just never know how much time you have left.

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I know, I guess in that situation it would be a different thing entirely. smirkymonkey Mar 2020 #25

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