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In reply to the discussion: Black man blocked from entering NJ gym where hes a paid member and even the cops are confused [View all]Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Most businesses have a policy of requiring people to buy, in order to spend time on the premises. Otherwise, it can be considered loitering.
The employee isn't a lawyer.
You don't even know her side.
And it all comes back to: If only they'd bought a cup of coffee, to pay for the privilege of sitting there and hanging out and using the bathroom.
If they had bought a cup of coffee, and were asked to leave...that would give a supposition of discrimination.
When I was kicked out of a business, was I being discriminated against?
When my brother was kicked out and banned from several businesses, was he being discriminated against?
If these guys had been required to buy a cup of coffee to hang out there, and were white, would they have been discriminated against?
Maybe it was racism. Maybe not. Some are just assuming it was for the reason that they were black. Racism does exist. But I just don't see it here.
I think the difference may be that I'm the only one who has been kicked out of a business before, so I KNOW for a fact that you can be kicked out without it being racism. It's not that unusual.
I think I'm the only one who has a relative who has been kicked out of, and banned, from several businesses. So I KNOW for a fact that people can be kicked out of multiple businesses without racism being involved...and that IT'S NOT THAT UNUSUAL TO BE KICKED OUT OF A BUSINESS. (My brother is argumentative and nitpicky...he'll argue with a clerk over one penny, or a sign, or the parking spaces, or you name it. He's not overly rude...but he interferes with the conducting of business, so they end up kicking him out and telling him he can't come back.)
It's just not that unusual to be kicked out of a place for not behaving the way the establishment wants.