Stressed over some medical screening appointments today

[hamsterjill]

I am admittedly a real weenie over medical stuff. I could use some prayers today to get through these screenings, and prayers for clear outcomes. So many other people handle these things so much better than I do. I wish I wasn't this bad. Mine goes back to a childhood trauma situation, and the stress is pretty hard.

I thank you in advance, and wish you all a blessed and peaceful day.

[Ocelot II]

1. I feel your pain; I'm the same way.

I hate, hate, hate medical procedures; they scare the crap out of me, which means I avoid them unless I'm almost too sick to move or bleeding from a major artery. Which is stupid. And unlike you I have no explanation; I was never traumatized by medical situations but they scare me anyhow. So I offer you vibes for peace from a fellow medicophobic.

[hamsterjill]

2. Thank you, Ocelot.

I always feel foolish, but I am what I am. It's hard for us, right? A lot of people who don't have these fears simply don't understand. I wish I could be more like "normal" people in this regard. A good friend of mine has always said that it is the loss of control that freaks me out. Someone ELSE is in control even for the few minutes it takes to get through the tests. And I think that's a great part of it for me.

I try very hard not to make things difficult for the medical personnel who are there to help me. Most, I've found, are quite understanding and their calming presence helps me get through. I just wish that I didn't spend a week stressing over these.

I'm going to treat myself to something special once they are over. If I can ever return the favor for you, please let me know. I've tried a lot of stress reducing things and I'll be happy to share with you what I've found that works for me, and what doesn't - IF that would ever be helpful.

Thanks again!

[Ocelot II]

3. Thank you!

[multigraincracker]

4. Just got back from mine with my new cardiologist.

Went great and that’s why I try to pick female doctors. She listen to me.

[hamsterjill]

8. Glad all went well with yours!

It is very important to find "THE" doctor that you have a connection with and can converse with. There are definitely some who don't hear a word you say, and that is unfortunate and dangerous.

[multigraincracker]

12. Go to Rate Your Doctor . Com.

Good place to start.

[Polly Hennessey]

5. You are not alone. I hate them but understand their necessity.

Always remember, hamsterjill, you are doing this for yourself. Staying healthy and happy does take some effort. You are worth it. 🥰

[hamsterjill]

9. Thank you so much for that wisdom.

We are all worth it. It's not fun, but it is necessary.

[SheltieLover]

6. Good vibes on the way to you

[hamsterjill]

10. Appreciate that, Sheltie!

Hope you're having a great evening!

[hlthe2b]

7. You are in my thoughts...

[hamsterjill]

11. Thank you for that.

I appreciate it.