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KS Toronado

(21,467 posts)
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 07:37 PM Friday

I always thought Italians were friendly

I just returned to this Country after spending hours boating the waterways in Venice Italy among
their ancient buildings. Seen lots of great sights, police & fire boats, grocery boats, other sightseer
boats, unique buildings the list goes on.

But what really made me mad was every time I said hi or waved at an Italian they just ignored me
or looked dumbfounded, never once did any of them acknowledge my presence.

I'd like to go back but I'll use a different travel agency next time instead of Google Earth!

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snowybirdie

(6,376 posts)
1. You're lucky
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 07:41 PM
Friday

Our gondola driver got into a territory fight with another one and thought we'd get dunked into the canal. Next time they overloaded our water taxi and it almost sank into the Adriatic!

kimbutgar

(26,193 posts)
2. The 3 times I went from 2016-2018 the venetians were kind and expressed sympathy for us having the orange turd
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 07:55 PM
Friday

As pos. Of course when they asked us where we were from we said California !

rsdsharp

(11,393 posts)
3. I've never been to Italy, but I spent 2 1/2 weeks in China with an American Express tour group.
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 08:11 PM
Friday

Everywhere we went there was an Italian tour group. The term ugly American is definitely well earned, and we had a couple in our group, but the Italians were unfailing pushy and rude.

And unwashed. In China. In August.

Bread and Circuses

(1,238 posts)
4. Were you speaking Italian? There's a way that Europeans address or greet each other....that may be different .
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 08:24 PM
Friday

For example. In Italy, there may be less interest in greeting tourists or unknown people as the country has many ex-pats, EU residents, etc. They have lots of non-natives in Italy and they will be cordial but not interested in getting to know you or chatting. Don’t take that to mean that they are less friendly. . If they see you more often in the streets, stores or piazzas they will be more likely to chat and smile. They are not prone to wave to strangers, it just isn’t a common thing. They like to build a relationship over time .
Waving to strangers across the piazza is not what most other cultures do. Of course, this is a generalization.
When traveling, I’ve found that it’s best to be in the background, blend-in and observe. Also, to know some phrases in the local language. And, people have helped me of I look bewildered or lost.

Enjoy your travels.

usonian

(21,182 posts)
6. You saw the Italians who see tourists all day.
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 08:54 PM
Friday

Go where tourists aren't. Google sends people where Google is paid to send people.



Say, is that cousin Roberto?

And in Napoli, they always make extra in case visitors show up.



Consult me next time, or send me ahead to scout.
I'm planning to make some tiramisu tonight.
Come on over!


fierywoman

(8,436 posts)
7. I lived in Venice for seven years during the 80s. Did you say "Hi" or "Buon giorno"?
Fri Oct 3, 2025, 09:02 PM
Friday

By September, Venetians can't stand tourists any more. I believe that now there are even more tourists there than when I lived there.

Old Crank

(6,290 posts)
10. Google Earth is a cheap way to tour
Sat Oct 4, 2025, 04:04 AM
Saturday

Places. Unfortunately you can't sit and have an espresso beside a plaza.

usonian

(21,182 posts)
15. I took you a bit more literally "google" than the "google earth" tour bus.
Sat Oct 4, 2025, 02:10 PM
Saturday

I might have phrased it that way.

Google maps will send you directions, and I trust Google only to send me to sponsored locations.

I went on some virtual tours of highway signs with GE, but the process was a pain.

I just give directions instead of pix any more.

And as I noted, GP(🍕 S works.

I got one image and snapped it, of an auto with 6 wheels. It moved while it was being surveilled. Will post whenever I find it.

I use Google roughly zero.

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