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peacefreak2.0

(1,040 posts)
Fri Jun 16, 2023, 12:31 PM Jun 2023

AITA I have a friend who insists on taking her dog everywhere.

I enjoy my friend’s company, but it turns into the Petey show when we go out. There is a Pride event that I planned on going to. She invited herself and the dog. It was not what I had in mind and I begged off.
I don’t mind being around him in small doses, but he can be problematic. She let him off leash and he attacked a fawn. He can’t stay away from porcupines. I feel I have to keep one eye out for him when I’m around him. That being said, he’s mostly a good boy.
I know he is her world and would be terribly hurt if I say something. Any advice?

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AITA I have a friend who insists on taking her dog everywhere. (Original Post) peacefreak2.0 Jun 2023 OP
Definitely NTA TexasBushwhacker Jun 2023 #1
I think NTA means not the asshole in this instance, Croney Jun 2023 #2
they have some cute pet carrier backpacks these days... eShirl Jun 2023 #3
I have a formerly feral cat who loves everyone and loves trouble. And he's fast. He spooky3 Jun 2023 #4

Croney

(4,957 posts)
2. I think NTA means not the asshole in this instance,
Fri Jun 16, 2023, 12:52 PM
Jun 2023

but there were other definitions offered on Google so I could be wrong.

spooky3

(37,483 posts)
4. I have a formerly feral cat who loves everyone and loves trouble. And he's fast. He
Fri Jun 16, 2023, 02:12 PM
Jun 2023

can be extremely annoying to people who don't love him. I would never take him with me to events. He's learning to be on a leash but we never go outside our yard.

I think you can kindly explain that while Petey is a good boy (being generous) you don't feel you can relax around him off-leash, so you very much enjoy seeing her but not with the dog.

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