Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

mopinko

(73,717 posts)
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:18 PM Yesterday

welp, i get the award for the world's biggest dufus.

i had a fire in my house last night. pretty big 1. AAAND i have no insurance, i may just need to sell it as is.
i’m a stupid smoker. the fire fell of a cig, into a pile of clothes. now here’s where it gets rly dumb. i thought i had snuffed it out, but i didnt.
i’d had a week of shit sleep, to the point i was stupid tired. just wanted to get to bed.
was woken up at 2am by a screaming neighbor. i’m kinda in shock. i’m fine, dogs r fine, parrots even fine.
just want to get some sleep, but cant. dealing w board up and clean up ppl.
i’m staying at my 2flat, in my short term unit. 2nd flr unit is vacant atm, and will prolly stay there for a while. my biggest problem is my dogs. they hate each other and i’d been managing them upstairs dog/ downstairs dog. i cant do that in an apt.
i need to find a temporary home for 1 of them. maybe permanent if i decide to sell the house.
add to all that back pain that refuses to go away.
jesus i’m fucked.

18 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
welp, i get the award for the world's biggest dufus. (Original Post) mopinko Yesterday OP
Times like these prepare us for better days. multigraincracker Yesterday #1
this wd b more bearable mopinko Yesterday #7
I'm glad to hear that you found True Dough 23 hrs ago #13
RN that saved my life twice. multigraincracker 23 hrs ago #14
Damn mopinko, hope you can find him a good home if that is what's gonna happen...... a kennedy Yesterday #2
Oh geeze! 2naSalit Yesterday #3
yes it is. mopinko Yesterday #5
Well... 2naSalit Yesterday #8
Gosh, that's a lot. But please be kind to yourself. You were sleep-deprived. femmedem Yesterday #4
same. mopinko Yesterday #6
Wow, Mo! That's A Bummer ProfessorGAC Yesterday #9
u need a dog? mopinko Yesterday #10
I'll Ask Around ProfessorGAC Yesterday #11
a half great pyrennese, mopinko Yesterday #12
Good luck with it all. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E 12 hrs ago #15
ty. mopinko 10 hrs ago #16
Oh, God, Mo, I'm so sorry that happened. Fires, even small ones, can be so tricky to get completely highplainsdem 3 hrs ago #17
ty. mopinko 3 hrs ago #18

multigraincracker

(37,637 posts)
1. Times like these prepare us for better days.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:32 PM
Yesterday

Perhaps even the end of our current leader?
I had a short time marriage that about destroyed me. Survived it and met my angle.
Hang in there and best of luck my friend.

a kennedy

(35,967 posts)
2. Damn mopinko, hope you can find him a good home if that is what's gonna happen......
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:43 PM
Yesterday

So sorry for your predicament. 🙏🏻

2naSalit

(102,736 posts)
3. Oh geeze!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:44 PM
Yesterday

SO sorry that happened!

Is that the house with the awesome kitchen? I hate the idea that you might not be able to stay there.

Here's hoping something works out for you so that it doesn't mean you lose your home.

femmedem

(8,561 posts)
4. Gosh, that's a lot. But please be kind to yourself. You were sleep-deprived.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:59 PM
Yesterday

That doesn't make you stupid, just human.

Yes, this is a setback. A hard one. But my god, I'm glad you and your dogs and your parrot all survived.

mopinko

(73,717 posts)
12. a half great pyrennese,
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 08:28 PM
Yesterday

i think he’s 8. a real cupcake of a dog. 100 lbs. pretty low maintenance, except for the hair.. but at least he doesnt have the full gp coat. a bit reactive, after his bs sister’s attacks. but he is interested in other dogs. if they’re on fb, i can send a pic.

eta, shelter puppy.

if i decide to repair/stay in the house, i’ll happily keep my bully dog. love her to death, my super snuggle bug. but if i end up in an apt… i’m feeling older than i am.

mopinko

(73,717 posts)
16. ty.
Sun Mar 29, 2026, 10:44 AM
10 hrs ago

finally got a little sleep. trying to get to sleep, i keep replaying that stupid moment. finally do, then wake up an hour later.
been in shock. clean up crew cant start til tomorrow. fortunately, it’s been chilly, so the mold hasnt taken off like it wd have if it was july.

highplainsdem

(62,066 posts)
17. Oh, God, Mo, I'm so sorry that happened. Fires, even small ones, can be so tricky to get completely
Sun Mar 29, 2026, 05:51 PM
3 hrs ago

snuffed out. You weren't dumb. You were just exhausted and thought you'd dealt with the fire threat.

Hugs for you, and prayers that this will turn out much better than you're imagining now...

Latest Discussions»The DU Lounge»welp, i get the award for...