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Orrex

(64,941 posts)
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:50 PM Wednesday

Looking for alternatives

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Omaha Steve (a host of the The DU Lounge forum).

A few years back a friend rightly called me out for my thoughtless use of abelist slurs, in particular when I called Trump supporters "stupid" or "idiots" or "morons."

I saw the wisdom in my friend's rebuke, and since then I have pretty much completely eliminated that language from my speech and my postings. Instead, I use terms like "fool" and "ignorant" and "kkkultist," because these denote a largely deliberate choice rather than a circumstance of birth over which the target had and has no control.

Also acceptable are "asshole," "asshat," and "shithead," because these are a commentary on behavior and not an attack on inherent traits.

But sometimes I want something with a little more punch.


Any suggestions?


Mods: please lock if this is too heavy for The Lounge, but it seemed too frivolous for GD.

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Looking for alternatives (Original Post) Orrex Wednesday OP
I think Hillary nailed it with deplorables SheltieLover Wednesday #1
I guess 'intellectually challenged ' might also be a slur. sinkingfeeling Wednesday #2
odious crud Wednesday #3
Wilfully ignorant jerks FullySupportDems Wednesday #4
AFTER a review by forum hosts LOCKING Omaha Steve Wednesday #5

SheltieLover

(65,736 posts)
1. I think Hillary nailed it with deplorables
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:05 PM
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Uneducable cultists works well, too.

sinkingfeeling

(54,825 posts)
2. I guess 'intellectually challenged ' might also be a slur.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:06 PM
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crud

(947 posts)
3. odious
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:20 PM
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worthy of contempt

FullySupportDems

(310 posts)
4. Wilfully ignorant jerks
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:21 PM
Wednesday

Omaha Steve

(105,002 posts)
5. AFTER a review by forum hosts LOCKING
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:34 PM
Wednesday

NO politics in the Lounge.

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