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DFW

(59,251 posts)
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 06:42 PM Apr 2022

Rude awakening: 70 is not the new 50. It is the old 70.

Yesterday, for the first time in 19 years, we went into very deep water. I refused a flotation aid, as I hadn't ever needed one.

Oops.

In the 19 years, my condition has weakened somewhat, and I was out of breath trying to keep afloat. I felt my heart pounding, as struggled to get to shore. I barely made it. One of the crew, who had a flotation device with him, saw I was having difficulty, gave it to me, and I was fine after that. But for a few seconds, I felt some true panic. In some things, 70 is not the new 50, no matter how good the slogan feels.

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Rude awakening: 70 is not the new 50. It is the old 70. (Original Post) DFW Apr 2022 OP
70 is the new 50 qazplm135 Apr 2022 #1
Remember you can always roll over on to your back. vanlassie Apr 2022 #2
I know, but I still had to get somewhere secure DFW Apr 2022 #16
Glad assistance was available. elleng Apr 2022 #3
if 70 is the new 50 then is 90 the new dead?? agingdem Apr 2022 #4
true, old age is llashram Apr 2022 #5
I admit I am starting to feel my 74 years. MOMFUDSKI Apr 2022 #6
74 here too, have a staff for walking around the property, AnotherDreamWeaver Apr 2022 #7
Yikes! Elessar Zappa Apr 2022 #8
That makes two of us! n/t DFW Apr 2022 #17
I hear ya, 74 here, gab13by13 Apr 2022 #9
I'm sure that was part of it DFW Apr 2022 #18
When I go to my doctors, they say I am in great shape for my age. marie999 Apr 2022 #10
I'm a bit younger than you and had a close call with drowning in St. Croix about 10 years ago. beaglelover Apr 2022 #11
That's probably it. DFW Apr 2022 #19
I was very careful today mnhtnbb Apr 2022 #12
I enjoy your posts so much, DFW. Please stay safe.. lostnfound Apr 2022 #13
Thanks! DFW Apr 2022 #20
I'm the youngster in my surf crowd tirebiter Apr 2022 #14
Thank God you're all right! And 70 CAN be the new 50, but only if you take really, really highplainsdem Apr 2022 #15
I'm sure I'll never have the time to do what any such book recommends DFW Apr 2022 #21

DFW

(59,251 posts)
16. I know, but I still had to get somewhere secure
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 05:18 PM
Apr 2022

I didn't want to leave it until the last second.

elleng

(141,341 posts)
3. Glad assistance was available.
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 06:54 PM
Apr 2022

I do complain (in my mind) that whenever I'm @ grocery parking lot, someone (always a different someone!) asks if I need assistance. (My gait isn't what it used to be, and neither is my hair!)

agingdem

(8,673 posts)
4. if 70 is the new 50 then is 90 the new dead??
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 06:59 PM
Apr 2022

just love it when a 30 something tells me age is nothing more than a state of mind..so I suppose cataracts, protruding veins, gnarled fingers, stooped shoulders, and gray hair are just a figment of my imagination...good to know...

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
6. I admit I am starting to feel my 74 years.
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 07:07 PM
Apr 2022

It is just little things but they add up to "what the hell happened?". Just the other day my gal friend commented on all the pretty colors our skin has turned. We laughed.

AnotherDreamWeaver

(2,921 posts)
7. 74 here too, have a staff for walking around the property,
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 07:09 PM
Apr 2022

and a cane for walking around when in town. I'm thinking of moving up to a walker. One with brakes.

gab13by13

(30,321 posts)
9. I hear ya, 74 here,
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 07:26 PM
Apr 2022

I say 70 is the new 50 in golf. With the new equipment and souped up golf balls, I still play from the back tees.

Forget swimming, I sink like a rock even in the ocean. I truly believe that I drowned in a former life.

I wouldn't worry DFW, it may just be a case of using different muscles that haven't been used in a while.

DFW

(59,251 posts)
18. I'm sure that was part of it
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 05:20 PM
Apr 2022

We are the ocean a lot off Cape Cod every summer, but usually boogie board surfing, not fish gazing.

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
10. When I go to my doctors, they say I am in great shape for my age.
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 07:35 PM
Apr 2022

I tell them I don't want to be in great shape for my age, I want to be in great shape period.

beaglelover

(4,375 posts)
11. I'm a bit younger than you and had a close call with drowning in St. Croix about 10 years ago.
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 07:46 PM
Apr 2022

Since then I never go far into the ocean where I can't easily touch the bottom. I'm just not as strong a swimmer as I used to be and I work out regularly. Oh well.

DFW

(59,251 posts)
19. That's probably it.
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 05:23 PM
Apr 2022

That, and too long between the times I tried it.

Plus, I just don't have the time to work out regularly. My work days usually have me up by 5, and not done until 11 PM or later. I do walk a lot while working, at least, and cities like Brussels and Zürich are full of hills.

mnhtnbb

(32,957 posts)
12. I was very careful today
Thu Apr 14, 2022, 08:11 PM
Apr 2022

getting in/out of the water to snorkel today (on Bonaire). My balance is not what it was even two years ago. The resort where I am has a fabulous beach where you can walk in adjacent to a dock. I did. And I needed to hold on to the dock walking out.

No problem for me with deep water: it's the getting in/ out where the tide is challenging my balance that's the problem. Age 71.

tirebiter

(2,652 posts)
14. I'm the youngster in my surf crowd
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 12:51 AM
Apr 2022

Im a bodyboarders at 681/2. There are guys in their mid 70’s out in the water. I did just have back surgery for sciatica and my blood pressures up. Plan to go out at least once more but im not gonna buy any more wet suits, probably

highplainsdem

(58,824 posts)
15. Thank God you're all right! And 70 CAN be the new 50, but only if you take really, really
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 11:17 AM
Apr 2022

good care of yourself.

This book is a good place to start:

https://www.youngernextyear.com/

DFW

(59,251 posts)
21. I'm sure I'll never have the time to do what any such book recommends
Fri Apr 15, 2022, 05:27 PM
Apr 2022

But I'll take it under advisement, thanks!

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