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imanamerican63

(16,528 posts)
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 07:28 PM 18 hrs ago

A great friend of mine passed away yesterday and it leaves me feeling a bit sad.

He had been in failing health for a year or so, but he continued to work up to about a month or two before he couldn’t bare the pain anymore. It started with his back. He was in pain if he was walking, but sitting was ok.

He went to doctors and several medical experts and they were unable to find the problem. When I last talked with him too see how was doing? He was not himself and unfortunately he was in pain and was trying to say he was feeling better.

I had a feeling today in which I called his phone. His son answered and had said my friend had passed away yesterday. He explained there was complications from his blood pressure dropping too low.

I have a feeling there were other things that could have been wrong with.

We meet in the 90’s while working for a company I was driving for and he leased his truck on as an owner operator. We put a lot miles behind us over the years. He was an onry cuss, but was to be around. He was 10 years older, but we were able to make a bond together in from what we did growing up and the things our fathers taught us in our careers. He started driving a truck in the late 60’s up to a few months. He was a hard worker and rarely took time to enjoy himself. He was close to calling it quits and enjoy spending time with his family. But it wasn’t to be.

He was an avid Trump hater too! He would call me at all hours of the day, just to tell me that Trump did something stupid or whatever the case of corruption Trump was getting us into.

So, here’s to you my Friend. Rest Easy & I’ll always cherish our friendship. The roads did get much longer and lonelier without you.




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A great friend of mine passed away yesterday and it leaves me feeling a bit sad. (Original Post) imanamerican63 18 hrs ago OP
Sorry about your friend's passing. nt in2herbs 18 hrs ago #1
My condolences MustLoveBeagles 18 hrs ago #2
That's beautiful SuzyandPuffpuff 18 hrs ago #3
Deepest condolences SheltieLover 18 hrs ago #4
I'm sorry for your loss. chowder66 18 hrs ago #5
My condolences Lifeafter70 18 hrs ago #6
I hope for many hugs for you to help you get through this. calimary 18 hrs ago #7
Thank you. imanamerican63 18 hrs ago #9
So sorry! A great friend (imho) is like a treasured family member. electric_blue68 18 hrs ago #8
Condolences to you and a lovely tribute to your friend. n/t SheilaAnn 18 hrs ago #10
Condolences. And deep appreciation to you for sharing your friend's stories. pat_k 17 hrs ago #11
My sincere condolences. Good friends are treasures 💐 Deuxcents 17 hrs ago #12
My friend of 61 years is dying of ALS. CanonRay 17 hrs ago #13
So sorry for the loss of your friend. May every livetohike 17 hrs ago #14
Nice tribute.. Permanut 17 hrs ago #15
I am so sorry for your loss, imanamerican63 MIButterfly 17 hrs ago #16
A lovely tribute imanamerican63. Safe travels. c-rational 17 hrs ago #17
I am very sorry, imananerican63. May his memories be a blessing to you. debm55 17 hrs ago #18
On Friends Forever wyn borkins 17 hrs ago #19
What a nice poem! And particularly appropriate. 70sEraVet 16 hrs ago #20
I Wrote It One Mile Ago... wyn borkins 16 hrs ago #22
No wonder its so appropriate! 70sEraVet 16 hrs ago #24
It sounds like you had a very special bond, which is something to treasure. 3catwoman3 16 hrs ago #21
So sad to lose long time friends. I lost a buddy of. mine a few monts ago. mitch96 16 hrs ago #23

SuzyandPuffpuff

(775 posts)
3. That's beautiful
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 07:38 PM
18 hrs ago

That was a lovely story. I've lost many and more to come but that's how it is. Yr friend sounded lovely and I hope folks appreciated him . And you as well. Thank you

calimary

(91,427 posts)
7. I hope for many hugs for you to help you get through this.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 07:50 PM
18 hrs ago

Here’s one from me:

(((((((((( * ))))))))))

electric_blue68

(27,886 posts)
8. So sorry! A great friend (imho) is like a treasured family member.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 07:55 PM
18 hrs ago
Cherish the memories, between the sadness.

CanonRay

(16,308 posts)
13. My friend of 61 years is dying of ALS.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 08:37 PM
17 hrs ago

We said our goodbyes on Zoom on Wednesday last week. She has stopped eating and tomorrow she will stop drinking. She is one of the most active and energetic people I ever knew. I'm sad beyond words.

livetohike

(24,499 posts)
14. So sorry for the loss of your friend. May every
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 08:38 PM
17 hrs ago

good memory make you smile imanamerican63 .

MIButterfly

(3,462 posts)
16. I am so sorry for your loss, imanamerican63
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 08:41 PM
17 hrs ago

I send you my condolences. Thank you for sharing your friend's story with us. I hope fond memories of him will eventually bring you peace and you'll always remember the good times you shared


Your DU family is here for you any time, day or night, if you need to talk.

With deepest sympathy,
MIButterly



wyn borkins

(1,581 posts)
19. On Friends Forever
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 09:11 PM
17 hrs ago

Mile upon mile
He'll watch you smile
Mile upon mile
He'll be here awhile

Over the road we go
Mile after mile
I'm better now
No longer hostile

I'll be your friend
Way past the end
Mile after mile

3catwoman3

(30,151 posts)
21. It sounds like you had a very special bond, which is something to treasure.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 09:24 PM
16 hrs ago

Thank you for telling us about him.

mitch96

(15,911 posts)
23. So sad to lose long time friends. I lost a buddy of. mine a few monts ago.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 09:26 PM
16 hrs ago

We were friends for 60+ years. She married my best friend. Great husband and three great kids.
All in all she won the life lottery...
My other friend of 40+ years is dying of cancer. It's all over her body so it's just a matter of time.
She has made peace with it. I have other friends with severe health problems
I'm a geezer and is this how it goes? Friends dropping away bit by bit in the final scene of my three act play called life.

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