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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA great friend of mine passed away yesterday and it leaves me feeling a bit sad.
He had been in failing health for a year or so, but he continued to work up to about a month or two before he couldnt bare the pain anymore. It started with his back. He was in pain if he was walking, but sitting was ok.
He went to doctors and several medical experts and they were unable to find the problem. When I last talked with him too see how was doing? He was not himself and unfortunately he was in pain and was trying to say he was feeling better.
I had a feeling today in which I called his phone. His son answered and had said my friend had passed away yesterday. He explained there was complications from his blood pressure dropping too low.
I have a feeling there were other things that could have been wrong with.
We meet in the 90s while working for a company I was driving for and he leased his truck on as an owner operator. We put a lot miles behind us over the years. He was an onry cuss, but was to be around. He was 10 years older, but we were able to make a bond together in from what we did growing up and the things our fathers taught us in our careers. He started driving a truck in the late 60s up to a few months. He was a hard worker and rarely took time to enjoy himself. He was close to calling it quits and enjoy spending time with his family. But it wasnt to be.
He was an avid Trump hater too! He would call me at all hours of the day, just to tell me that Trump did something stupid or whatever the case of corruption Trump was getting us into.
So, heres to you my Friend. Rest Easy & Ill always cherish our friendship. The roads did get much longer and lonelier without you.
in2herbs
(4,656 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(18,283 posts)SuzyandPuffpuff
(775 posts)That was a lovely story. I've lost many and more to come but that's how it is. Yr friend sounded lovely and I hope folks appreciated him . And you as well. Thank you
SheltieLover
(82,598 posts)Healing vibes on the way to you.
chowder66
(12,689 posts)Lifeafter70
(1,264 posts)calimary
(91,427 posts)Heres one from me:
(((((((((( * ))))))))))
imanamerican63
(16,528 posts)electric_blue68
(27,886 posts)SheilaAnn
(10,824 posts)pat_k
(14,496 posts)Deuxcents
(28,190 posts)CanonRay
(16,308 posts)We said our goodbyes on Zoom on Wednesday last week. She has stopped eating and tomorrow she will stop drinking. She is one of the most active and energetic people I ever knew. I'm sad beyond words.
livetohike
(24,499 posts)good memory make you smile imanamerican63
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Permanut
(8,720 posts)May the road rise up to meet him.
MIButterfly
(3,462 posts)I send you my condolences. Thank you for sharing your friend's story with us. I hope fond memories of him will eventually bring you peace and you'll always remember the good times you shared
Your DU family is here for you any time, day or night, if you need to talk.
With deepest sympathy,
MIButterly
c-rational
(3,235 posts)debm55
(62,523 posts)wyn borkins
(1,581 posts)Mile upon mile
He'll watch you smile
Mile upon mile
He'll be here awhile
Over the road we go
Mile after mile
I'm better now
No longer hostile
I'll be your friend
Way past the end
Mile after mile
70sEraVet
(5,735 posts)Who wrote it?
wyn borkins
(1,581 posts)70sEraVet
(5,735 posts)Quite a gift you have.
3catwoman3
(30,151 posts)Thank you for telling us about him.
mitch96
(15,911 posts)We were friends for 60+ years. She married my best friend. Great husband and three great kids.
All in all she won the life lottery...
My other friend of 40+ years is dying of cancer. It's all over her body so it's just a matter of time.
She has made peace with it. I have other friends with severe health problems
I'm a geezer and is this how it goes? Friends dropping away bit by bit in the final scene of my three act play called life.
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