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CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:16 PM Wednesday

I had a lovely encounter today at Costco, with an employee.

We were running low on household paper goods (tp, kleenex, paper towels) and I wanted to stock up before my surgery happens. We don't have a date yet, but we will, soon. I want to be ready!

Anyway. The person at the door who checks your receipt asked me if I'd like some help getting the load into my car. I said "Sure!" She hollered at a guy in a Costco vest who came over and we walked out to my car.

Got the trunk open and he started loading stuff in. I offered to tip him but he said he couldn't accept it; he'd get in trouble! I said I was sorry to hear that but I sure did appreciate his very timely help. He even took my cart!

He brightened my day and I hope I brightened his.

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I had a lovely encounter today at Costco, with an employee. (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday OP
Sometimes it's just little courtesies that restore our faith in human beings! Diamond_Dog Wednesday #1
I hear you, my dear Diamond_Dog, and everything you said is true! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #6
Costco rocks. May be going today also. intrepidity Wednesday #2
Costco sure does rock, my dear intrepidity! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #7
I love Costco LetMyPeopleVote Wednesday #3
I love Costco too, and thank you for responding, my dear LetMyPeopleVote! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #8
What a nice young man FakeNoose Wednesday #4
Thanks for your generous remark, my dear FakeNoose! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #9
Stocking up before surgery is an act of self-care.Glad you're having a good time of it 😀 Clouds Passing Wednesday #5
Absolutely it is an act of self-care and having fun is a Bonus! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #10
I'm so glad to hear about this, CaliforniaPeggy! MIButterfly Wednesday #11
Thanks so much for your beautiful remarks, my dear MIButterfly! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #23
Gotta say, Costco has gone over and above 5 times in the last couple months for me rurallib Wednesday #12
Thanks for your very kind words and wishes, my dear rurallib! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #25
kindness and pay it foreward still exsists. AllaN01Bear Wednesday #13
They sure do still exist, my dear AllaNO1Bear! I think they always will. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #26
Thank you for the happy story, CP. MontanaMama Wednesday #14
I sure do agree with you, my dear MontanaMama! We need our happy stories, more than ever. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #27
you are such a kind person stage left Wednesday #15
Aw, thank you so much, my dear stage left! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #28
Love Costco, good luck Peggy with your surgery. dem4decades Wednesday #16
Thanks so much for your lovely sentiments, my dear dem4decades! I expect to come out totally well. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #30
Costco is THE place. LoisB Wednesday #17
It sure is, my dear LoisB! I LOVE the place. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #31
I'm sure you made his day! rubbersole Wednesday #18
I sure hope so too, my dear rubbersole! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #33
A relative of mine works for Costco. Wednesdays Wednesday #19
I have read about this, and I'm sure the positive attitude is very beneficial for all. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #34
Never a bad experience at Costco! HAB911 Wednesday #20
You got that right, my dear HAB911! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #35
Costco pay almost 40% more for their employees. multigraincracker Wednesday #21
Thanks for your informative response, my dear multigraincracker! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #36
You are such a positive person Picaro Wednesday #22
Thank you, my dear Picaro! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #37
Glad you're out and about CP. mountain grammy Wednesday #24
Thanks for your lovely remarks, my dear mountain grammy! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #38
Thank you for sharing this heart-and-spirit-lifting story with us, MsPeggy. niyad Wednesday #29
Aw, thank you so much, my dear niyad . . . CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #39
Wonderful malaise Wednesday #32
Ah, you're too kind, my dear malaise! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #40
Been preoccupied with this coming TS/Hurricane Melissa malaise Wednesday #42
That's such a sweet story, CaliforniaPeggy, JMCKUSICK Wednesday #41
Thanks for your lovely remarks, my dear JMCKUSICK! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #45
I am a big Costco fan Wifes husband Wednesday #43
Thanks for your illuminating remarks, my dear Wifes husband! You are absolutely right. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #46
Cool North Coast Lawyer Wednesday #44
And you know just how easy it is to help someone feel better, my dear North Coast Lawyer! It's very easy. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #47
Such a lovely story, Peggy. herding cats Wednesday #48
Thanks so much, my dear herding cats! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #49
I'd like to take this moment to wish you the absolute best outcome. herding cats Wednesday #50
That is so very kind of you! Thank you so much, my dear herding cats. To take your own limited time . . . CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #51
That's great to hear. bamagal62 Wednesday #52
I've heard good things about Publix too. We need more stores like these two! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #54
Well, there are good bamagal62 Thursday #59
That used to be the norm. It seems like the Dark Ages now... LisaM Wednesday #53
I dimly remember those days too, my dear LisaM. They are gone now. CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #55
And they wonder why shoplifting is up. LisaM Thursday #58
The year before I had my left knee replaced & during my recovery two stores stood out: Trader Joe's & Costco Hekate Wednesday #56
Thank you for your wonderful story, my dear Hekate! CaliforniaPeggy Thursday #57
I buy food for our local food shelf mgardener Thursday #60
I've always had a positive experience with Costco employees LittleGirl Thursday #61
This makes me want to shop there. I didn't know all this about Costco. peacebuzzard Thursday #62

Diamond_Dog

(38,852 posts)
1. Sometimes it's just little courtesies that restore our faith in human beings!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:22 PM
Wednesday

That fellow sure did brighten your day. And it sounds like he was more than happy to help you!

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
6. I hear you, my dear Diamond_Dog, and everything you said is true!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:36 PM
Wednesday

He could not have been nicer.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
7. Costco sure does rock, my dear intrepidity!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:37 PM
Wednesday

I am feeling quite well, thank you! A bit tired from the trip, however.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
10. Absolutely it is an act of self-care and having fun is a Bonus!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:41 PM
Wednesday

Thank you for your lovely comments, my dear Clouds Passing!

MIButterfly

(1,531 posts)
11. I'm so glad to hear about this, CaliforniaPeggy!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 04:58 PM
Wednesday

It's these little acts of kindness that help to restore my faith in mankind. When I go out in public and interact with someone who's kind or friendly or helpful or just simply smiles at me, it makes my whole day! I feel so good about it.

I'm glad this happened to you today. Thank you for sharing it with us.





CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
23. Thanks so much for your beautiful remarks, my dear MIButterfly!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:20 PM
Wednesday

I feel the same way; interacting with friendly people can really perk up your day and theirs too!

rurallib

(64,298 posts)
12. Gotta say, Costco has gone over and above 5 times in the last couple months for me
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 05:04 PM
Wednesday

don't want to go into detail. And their prices are not going up as fast as other places - at least for what we buy.

While I am here, here is hope for a successful outcome.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
25. Thanks for your very kind words and wishes, my dear rurallib!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:22 PM
Wednesday

I'm glad they put their best foot forward for you when you truly needed it.

I'm hoping for a successful outcome too. Fingers crossed!

MontanaMama

(24,561 posts)
14. Thank you for the happy story, CP.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 05:14 PM
Wednesday

We need each and every one of these! And Costco…they just keep overachieving.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
27. I sure do agree with you, my dear MontanaMama! We need our happy stories, more than ever.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:26 PM
Wednesday

That's why I posted it. We all need cheering up, no matter how briefly.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
30. Thanks so much for your lovely sentiments, my dear dem4decades! I expect to come out totally well. n/t
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:29 PM
Wednesday

Wednesdays

(21,129 posts)
19. A relative of mine works for Costco.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 05:53 PM
Wednesday

The way they treat their employees is phenomenal. Morale is off the charts.

The positive attitude gets passed on to their customers.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
34. I have read about this, and I'm sure the positive attitude is very beneficial for all.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:34 PM
Wednesday

I am very happy to support the entire organization.

multigraincracker

(36,570 posts)
21. Costco pay almost 40% more for their employees.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:10 PM
Wednesday

They get a discount on company stock making them almost an employee owned business. That is the most efficient way to run a business.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
36. Thanks for your informative response, my dear multigraincracker!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:39 PM
Wednesday

I'd heard that this is an almost employee owned business and I was happy for them. Giving the employees a stake in the business makes them want to see it thrive. Very smart!

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
37. Thank you, my dear Picaro!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:41 PM
Wednesday

I do try to be; sometimes I fail. Part of being human!

I hope so too. Thanks!

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
38. Thanks for your lovely remarks, my dear mountain grammy!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:43 PM
Wednesday

Good for you! Husbands don't always win, I have found.

niyad

(128,065 posts)
29. Thank you for sharing this heart-and-spirit-lifting story with us, MsPeggy.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:29 PM
Wednesday

So desperately needed afternall the insanity yesterday. Vibes headed your way for a smooth and easy procedure and recovery and healing.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
39. Aw, thank you so much, my dear niyad . . .
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:45 PM
Wednesday

I appreciate your lovely remarks.

And your vibes help me to not worry about things that I have no control over.

JMCKUSICK

(4,317 posts)
41. That's such a sweet story, CaliforniaPeggy,
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 06:51 PM
Wednesday

I really do love great customer service. My dream job would be to set up a consultation company focusing on service and attitude.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
45. Thanks for your lovely remarks, my dear JMCKUSICK!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 08:22 PM
Wednesday

Your dream job sounds like it would be very rewarding!

Wifes husband

(631 posts)
43. I am a big Costco fan
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 07:10 PM
Wednesday

Just had their salmon for supper. Not cheap, but it is absolutely the best. Restaurant quality. Their hamburger is the best. (5 pounds in 1 pound portions). No need to drain the fat off.

Their gasoline is tier one, at sale prices. I have been using the optical department for a decade or more, and they are not a discount outfit. I wear Stetson frames and I have advanced lenses. The doctor was recommended by the doctor who did my cataract surgery. Never had my glasses fitted better, and I have been wearing glasses for over 70 years!
They are just the best

North Coast Lawyer

(221 posts)
44. Cool
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 07:13 PM
Wednesday

While many online people seem to bitch incessantly the actual world is full of decent people doing decent stuff. Encountering these people restores one's faith in humanity.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
47. And you know just how easy it is to help someone feel better, my dear North Coast Lawyer! It's very easy.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 08:27 PM
Wednesday

My faith in humanity gets restored on a nearly daily basis.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
49. Thanks so much, my dear herding cats!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 08:43 PM
Wednesday

I'm glad you enjoyed it.

I am feeling well. My surgery has not yet been scheduled.

herding cats

(19,915 posts)
50. I'd like to take this moment to wish you the absolute best outcome.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 08:53 PM
Wednesday

I'm about to have to go in for another surgery myself in my own cancer battle. Which always makes me feel pressed for time to bestow my thoughts.

Be well and live all your beautiful days to the fullest. You've always been a bright spot and deserve not to have to endure a long cancer treatment, so I wish you success and health kind lady!

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
51. That is so very kind of you! Thank you so much, my dear herding cats. To take your own limited time . . .
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 09:01 PM
Wednesday

to wish me all these very good things. Well, I'm almost speechless.

bamagal62

(4,231 posts)
52. That's great to hear.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 09:24 PM
Wednesday

I love Costco. I will say, that Publix is the same. I loved, when my mom was able to go to the grocery store, that they would take her groceries out to her car and would not accept a tip.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
54. I've heard good things about Publix too. We need more stores like these two!
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 11:36 PM
Wednesday

Thanks for chiming in, my dear bamagal62!

bamagal62

(4,231 posts)
59. Well, there are good
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 07:53 AM
Thursday

And bad things about Publix. But at least they help with the groceries!

LisaM

(29,385 posts)
53. That used to be the norm. It seems like the Dark Ages now...
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 09:56 PM
Wednesday

but it used to be that all grocery stores hired high school kids to carry your groceries to the car and load them.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
55. I dimly remember those days too, my dear LisaM. They are gone now.
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 11:37 PM
Wednesday

And I guess the teens have better things to do these days.

LisaM

(29,385 posts)
58. And they wonder why shoplifting is up.
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 12:50 AM
Thursday

When they bagged and carried out your groceries, the opportunity for shoplifting was pretty much zilch. Surprise that it's not like that now.

Hekate

(99,958 posts)
56. The year before I had my left knee replaced & during my recovery two stores stood out: Trader Joe's & Costco
Wed Oct 22, 2025, 11:48 PM
Wednesday

In both places I was asked if I wanted help loading my car and I said, “Yes!” TJ’s got me used to it, and if the employee at Costco forgot, I knew I could ask.

What a blessing. They even pushed my cart.

After I recovered and was no longer leaning heavily on a cane, I went up to the manager’s desk at TJ’s and told them just how much it had meant to me. I can’t remember if I tried to find someone at Costco (it’s so much bigger and more complex) but I hope I did.

Best of luck and restored health to you, Dear Peggy, and accept all the help you need getting there.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,483 posts)
57. Thank you for your wonderful story, my dear Hekate!
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 12:31 AM
Thursday

How fortunate to have those employees help you. I've had complete strangers ask if they can help me load my car, and I always say yes. It is truly life-saving.

And thank you for your good wishes on my upcoming surgery. Believe me, I'm not shy about asking for help! There are many folks who will help.



mgardener

(2,204 posts)
60. I buy food for our local food shelf
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 09:33 AM
Thursday

The staff at Sam's club could not be nicer. They don't accept tips either.

Good luck with your upcoming surgery!

LittleGirl

(8,856 posts)
61. I've always had a positive experience with Costco employees
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 09:34 AM
Thursday

they are the best of the best...well, most of them. wink

The customers though. I don't know why but the Concord (CA) Costco has the meanest and nastiest customers ever. Just trying to get a parking space there is a battle of wits. People speeding around to get a spot! It's so bad, I wish I had another Costco I could go to closer, but alas.

Thank you for sharing this wonderful exchange to remind us that there are good people in this world still and Costco has some of the finest employees around here. I dread shopping there but they have some of the best offers out and I like that they take care of their employees with a good salary and benefits. Haven't been to Walmart in decades because of their business practices and how awful they treat their employees. Less pay, not enough hours for benefits, employees get on SNAP benefits, which is wage theft to me.

Thanks for sharing something positive in this world today. hugs .xx

peacebuzzard

(5,704 posts)
62. This makes me want to shop there. I didn't know all this about Costco.
Thu Oct 23, 2025, 10:22 AM
Thursday

I went there once, oh so long ago, just to check it out; I thought it was just like another Sam's Club.
Which really never suited me, Walmart will do for what I need and I do not need to fill out forms for the membership. My company even provides a substantial discount for the Sam's Club or it might even be Costco...Does Costco require a membership? I thought both of those stores required an extra annual fee.
But after your story, I may give Costco another try even though it is quite a bit further of a drive.
Lovely tale, dear Peggy; I wish you the best on your upcoming surgery.

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