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Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,040 posts)
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:57 PM 19 hrs ago

Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy

the Tariff party hosted by Mango Mussolini today tells me I should stop spending, get debt as low as possible and hope the shit show doesn't cause my little part time job to be eliminated or reduced (giving out samples at Costco). I'm am in a way, perversely glad I'm not my kids and grandkids ages.........

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Well, for me, a semi retired 74 year old guy (Original Post) Dyedinthewoolliberal 19 hrs ago OP
Between Trump and climate change, the future does not look good. surfered 19 hrs ago #1
I never had kids FoxNewsSucks 18 hrs ago #4
I will be looking for more for that TalentAgency 19 hrs ago #2
When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids. multigraincracker 19 hrs ago #3
Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was elocs 5 hrs ago #21
I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc. hamsterjill 18 hrs ago #5
Means I have to go back into part time Nursing was hoping to fully retir but not happening now🙃 FloridaBlues 18 hrs ago #6
How is Costco doing lately! wolfie001 18 hrs ago #7
We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented... 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #8
Comments like this help me sleep soundly at nite!!! Thanks wolfie001 17 hrs ago #9
It seems busy as ever Dyedinthewoolliberal 16 hrs ago #12
People always need groceries wolfie001 6 hrs ago #14
I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t elocs 3 hrs ago #24
That's good to hear wolfie001 3 hrs ago #25
Every time we go it's packed Tree Lady 10 hrs ago #13
Great to hear! nt wolfie001 6 hrs ago #15
I just paid off several debts. pfitz59 17 hrs ago #10
So did I. calimary 17 hrs ago #11
Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also. elocs 3 hrs ago #27
Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit wolfie001 6 hrs ago #16
That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever. elocs 3 hrs ago #26
There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia DFW 6 hrs ago #17
I'm in mid-Michigan. Dyedinthewoolliberal 5 hrs ago #18
Quite the opposite in northern Virginia DFW 4 hrs ago #22
I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was elocs 5 hrs ago #19
Color me stupid DFW 4 hrs ago #23
Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently, Vinca 5 hrs ago #20
I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67. CousinIT 3 hrs ago #28
They're going to kill me anyway, The Madcap 2 hrs ago #29
Save save save Johnny2X2X 2 hrs ago #30

FoxNewsSucks

(11,049 posts)
4. I never had kids
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:41 PM
18 hrs ago

and am now so fucking glad. I don't know how anyone would want to birth a child into this world today.

multigraincracker

(35,284 posts)
3. When I was 11 years old I decided not to have kids.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:13 PM
19 hrs ago

That 64 years ago. Glad I don’t have to worry about that. I do have a ton of step children, grand kids and great grand kids. They are all great and I fear for them.

elocs

(23,863 posts)
21. Unless they can read about it in uncensored books, very young kids won't know what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:18 AM
5 hrs ago

and likely never will be again in their lifetimes. I wonder if they will ask themselves why we weren't more vigilant to protect and keep our democracy and its freedoms?

hamsterjill

(15,729 posts)
5. I've been working on the same - not spending as much, etc.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:42 PM
18 hrs ago

I can offer that Costco seems to be doing great, at least in my area! It is more packed than I've ever seen it every time I go there. So here's hoping that means good things for your part-time employment.

I am scared to death about the future. I'm in my sixties and have one child, but no grandchildren. I'm grateful for that because I fear what's to come.

I just wish that someone would do something to stop the asshole. I was excited about what Cory Booker did, but we need much, much more than just that.

wolfie001

(4,388 posts)
7. How is Costco doing lately!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:48 PM
18 hrs ago

I've heard business has been booming because of all the hate generated by Dump and his hate cult. Have you noticed an uptick? Just curious.

3catwoman3

(26,454 posts)
8. We were in our local Costco just yesterday, and the woman checking us out commented...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:15 PM
18 hrs ago

...that they have had a lot of new members who have left Sam's club. Good!

wolfie001

(4,388 posts)
14. People always need groceries
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:42 AM
6 hrs ago

I shop Union here in Maryland! No exceptions. I'm retired Union so that's where my money goes. Kohl's still has its DEI program in place, so I've been getting big-discounted items from there for my family. Cheers

elocs

(23,863 posts)
24. I've applied at Walmart and they clearly have their DEI program in place on their website. n/t
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:05 PM
3 hrs ago

wolfie001

(4,388 posts)
25. That's good to hear
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:10 PM
3 hrs ago

Maybe they're paying attention to the bigger picture. Best of luck to ya!

Tree Lady

(12,322 posts)
13. Every time we go it's packed
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 05:24 AM
10 hrs ago

southern Oregon, red city blue state.

It's pretty much always like this though, we all love Costco.

pfitz59

(11,422 posts)
10. I just paid off several debts.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:36 PM
17 hrs ago

I'm 65. Will be Social Security eligible in a year. 66 yrs and 10 mos. Thanks Reagan. Reducing my obligations to stay withing my small pension and part-time budget. My house is paid off and car loan manageable. I worry about younger folk, especially those saddled with student loans. For many folk Trumpism is doomsday. All their long-term plans and goals have been upended. The market is topsy turvy and retirement funds are shrinking. The malignant narcissist in DC is reveling in the destruction. He loves how folks are groveling and begging him for favors. It is sick. I'd follow the original poster's advice. Hunker down and hope Trumpism dies a spectacular and permanent death. Then rebuild.

calimary

(85,674 posts)
11. So did I.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:57 PM
17 hrs ago

My spending is so low by now that it’s hard to see! There’s just nothing I really need anymore, except for food, a regular supply of tea bags, and maybe a little chocolate every day. Thank You, God!

And that’s how it’s gonna stay. Grateful that neither my husband nor I have any big bills to pay down anymore, other than the mortgage. Plus, both kids are PLENTY old enough to handle all their own needs by now, and they actually seem to be enjoying it. Thank You, God, for THAT, too!

Simplification is a good thing. A VERY good thing!

elocs

(23,863 posts)
27. Yep, there are those of us who need a bit of chocolate each day if possible. But I hear that will go up in price also.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:15 PM
3 hrs ago

Well, I had 10 decent years of retirement before this befell our nation. If only we had been more vigilant in defending our democracy.

wolfie001

(4,388 posts)
16. Of course that's the Full retirement age benefit
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:45 AM
6 hrs ago

More if you wait till 70 or so, less if you take it at 62. Like Dorothy, you're always had the chance to flee the Land of Oz once you turned 62

elocs

(23,863 posts)
26. That Trumpism dies a spectacular & permanent death is a nice hope, but I fear the US is changed forever.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:12 PM
3 hrs ago

Sadly, Democrats and the Left were not vigilant in protecting our democracy, evidently thinking it was a permanent fixture and too many of us were complacent and overconfident about this. We underestimated Trump and maga as just being stupid and whining about a stolen election when for years they have been planning what is happening now.
I hope that young, preschool children may learn about what America once was, a shingle beacon to the world if the books still exist for them to learn this.

DFW

(57,623 posts)
17. There is a Costco about a half hour from my brother's house in Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:48 AM
6 hrs ago

My hat goes off to those people handing out those samples all day!! What a job! I do get to speak more Tagalog there than I usually speak in my whole time in Washington. I'm surprised there are any Anglos left doing that job!

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(16,040 posts)
18. I'm in mid-Michigan.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 10:44 AM
5 hrs ago

Pretty white here If food is seasoned with pepper here it's too spicy for many!!

DFW

(57,623 posts)
22. Quite the opposite in northern Virginia
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:35 AM
4 hrs ago

White Anglos are a small minority of the folks in the Costco where my brother shops (and I, when I'm there). Both immigrants and diplomats mixing--logical since they like to eat the same stuff. Spicy food is omnipresent and welcome. Since my brother and I like it too, we are frequent and willing targets for the offerings. If it's Asian (Turkey to Vietnam, it doesn't matter) or South American, we're in!

elocs

(23,863 posts)
19. I feel sorry for the young people who are still old enough to remember what America once was
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:07 AM
5 hrs ago

and will never be again. We will be a pariah, a second world nation with nukes among the free nations of the world and hopefully a lesson to them as well to be vigilant in protecting their freedoms and not become complacent in believing things will always be the same.

DFW

(57,623 posts)
23. Color me stupid
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:39 AM
4 hrs ago

But I think there is still enough will and initiative out there to bust out of this dark mode. I remember the optimism when Bill Clinton, then Barack Obama, and then Joe Biden took office. Each time, the Republicans managed to sour the mood, but each time, we bounced back, too. I'll maintain a glimmer of hope. The Europeans are such pessimists, I get enough of that here already.

Vinca

(51,830 posts)
20. Re your last remark. If I had a dime for every time my husband has said "Glad we're not young" recently,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 11:17 AM
5 hrs ago

I'd be . . . not rich . . . able to buy a decent steak. Never thought I'd see such a clusterfuck in my lifetime and I remember getting an 11% mortgage when we bought our first house.

CousinIT

(11,185 posts)
28. I'm 65, thanks to RayGun I can't get full SS bennies until 67.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:18 PM
3 hrs ago

If it's still there, benefits will probably be cut for all of us because privatizing it will skyrocket administrative costs.

My employer won't let me take all of my 401 (k) out, but I took half out. Now, I'm sweating what's going to happen to the rest and wondering what the hell Social Security will be like in two years.

UGH.

This is a BAD, BAD time for anyone to be near retirement. I mean stressful, fear-inducing, and hair-raising (those who still have hair).

Medicare will probably be privatized too. Pfft.



The Madcap

(1,071 posts)
29. They're going to kill me anyway,
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:22 PM
2 hrs ago

so I might as well have a year or two of freedom before they do it.

Johnny2X2X

(22,621 posts)
30. Save save save
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 01:37 PM
2 hrs ago

My savings are my key focus right now. No revolving debt.

Putting off expensies. Was going to rebuild my deck, I'm painting it instead. Was doing a week vacation for an anniversary, going camping now instead.

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