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bluescribbler

(2,231 posts)
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:58 AM 20 hrs ago

One year ago, today

When I woke up that morning, I had one cigarette left in the pack. I smoked that cigarette at about 9:00 and decided not to go to the store for another pack. I still have not bought any more cigarettes, nor have I smoked any cigarettes. I still get tempted now and then, but I continue to decide not to buy cigarettes. I don't take credit for this; all credit goes to a counsellor at the VA named Ariel, a drug called Chantix, and Susan's love. One year smoke free!!

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One year ago, today (Original Post) bluescribbler 20 hrs ago OP
Congratulations! niyad 20 hrs ago #1
It's the best thing I ever did for myself mountain grammy 20 hrs ago #2
I think this was a George Carlin line. Prairie_Seagull 20 hrs ago #3
Great quip with a complicated lineage Pinback 18 hrs ago #23
Outstanding, thank you. Prairie_Seagull 18 hrs ago #27
Most interesting! calimary 25 min ago #77
Mark Twain California Kid 16 hrs ago #47
Congrats. Xavier Breath 20 hrs ago #4
Awesome! Way to go!! Blue_Roses 19 hrs ago #5
Similar story here. My dad stopped smoking after about 50 years in 1990 and lived another 19 years..... Bengus81 18 hrs ago #31
Two points about smoking. The first has always generated an unanswered question in my mind. The second was my....... usaf-vet 17 hrs ago #38
I was thirteen when I started smoking. bluescribbler 14 hrs ago #55
One event that I remember with absolute clarity canetoad 12 hrs ago #63
My dad was in the Army during Blue_Roses 1 hr ago #74
Great job, Congratulations wendyb-NC 19 hrs ago #6
Congratulations. I'm starting year 16, tobacco free. sinkingfeeling 19 hrs ago #7
I've read that 25 years smoke free is as good as never-smoked for the body. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz 18 hrs ago #19
i would like to believe that Native 17 hrs ago #39
Yeah, I've read that too canetoad 12 hrs ago #64
I'm closing in on fifty years smoke free soldierant 7 hrs ago #72
You are a great role model on this! My mother quit smoking in her 40s and died in her 90s. Bernardo de La Paz 49 min ago #75
congratz OldSWODog 19 hrs ago #8
Well done... littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #9
Good work! yellerpup 19 hrs ago #10
Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice, surfered 19 hrs ago #11
I have read most successful quitters failed at least once before. Anyone can quit Bernardo de La Paz 18 hrs ago #17
Congratulations. Even with the meds, this takes will power. SpankMe 19 hrs ago #12
super! et tu 19 hrs ago #13
Yes, believing in yourself is key. Positive outlook can be learned and is self-sustaining. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz 18 hrs ago #20
Yaye Ariel! MadLinguist 19 hrs ago #14
Congratulations! LittleGirl 19 hrs ago #15
I lost count of the number of times I tried to quit and the number of methods... Native 17 hrs ago #42
The smell! That's what keeps me away LittleGirl 13 hrs ago #56
I'm the same way. Native 13 hrs ago #57
Congratulations!! 2naSalit 19 hrs ago #16
Awesome accomplishment! Hope22 18 hrs ago #18
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Trueblue Texan 18 hrs ago #21
For the record, I do not claim to have quit smoking. bluescribbler 18 hrs ago #30
Congrats! peggysue2 18 hrs ago #22
Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice, surfered 18 hrs ago #24
Congrats! wysimdnwyg 18 hrs ago #25
Good for you! murielm99 18 hrs ago #26
That's great. Keep up the good work. OLDMDDEM 18 hrs ago #28
Congrats! Stay determined. Best thing you could do for your health and wallet judesedit 18 hrs ago #29
CONGRATS!! Question for baby boomers...How many of you NEVER smoked because of your parents smoking? Bengus81 18 hrs ago #32
I'm Gen X and had no desire because my mother TBF 17 hrs ago #37
Congrats... JT45242 18 hrs ago #33
Congratulations! n/t livetohike 18 hrs ago #34
Congratulations MustLoveBeagles 17 hrs ago #35
Congrats. OldBaldy1701E 17 hrs ago #36
Good for you, and continued success......I quit 5-2-2005. Was gonna be retiring in 2006 a kennedy 17 hrs ago #40
Congratulations! BlueKentuckyGirl 17 hrs ago #41
That's great. Hang in there. Lonestarblue 17 hrs ago #43
15 years Figarosmom 17 hrs ago #44
Good for you! pandr32 17 hrs ago #45
Dreams! bluescribbler 13 hrs ago #58
That is one BIG Step! Keep it up. Now - two words DEEP BREATHS! rurallib 17 hrs ago #46
WooHoo Clouds Passing 16 hrs ago #48
Congratulations! piddyprints 15 hrs ago #49
I quit 42 years ago, C OH Dem 15 hrs ago #50
Chantix worked for me too. I thank my older brother applegrove 15 hrs ago #51
Congratulations underpants 15 hrs ago #52
Congrats! senseandsensibility 14 hrs ago #53
YES! markie 14 hrs ago #54
Good job. Griefbird 13 hrs ago #59
That's great!!! ailsagirl 13 hrs ago #60
Congratulations! beaglelover 13 hrs ago #61
Well done bluescribbler canetoad 12 hrs ago #62
Great for you Tribetime 12 hrs ago #65
Good for you! Congratulations on being smoke free! HeartsCanHope 12 hrs ago #66
03/14/1982 for me. Cold turkey. BHDem53 12 hrs ago #67
That's awesome!! Andy Canuck 10 hrs ago #68
Well done Cirsium 10 hrs ago #69
Congratulations... Tikki 9 hrs ago #70
Congratulations! evolves 7 hrs ago #71
It gets easier gay texan 6 hrs ago #73
That's Absolutely TERRIFIC!!! calimary 30 min ago #76

Prairie_Seagull

(3,643 posts)
3. I think this was a George Carlin line.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:07 AM
20 hrs ago

"I know how easy it is to quit smoking, I've done it a thousand times."

Congrats bluescribbler.

No 1001 for you.

calimary

(83,761 posts)
77. Most interesting!
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 05:52 AM
25 min ago

I’ve never seen link before. Looks like something so absorbing that you could get completely lost in it.

Xavier Breath

(4,756 posts)
4. Congrats.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:07 AM
20 hrs ago

I've never smoked, but I've always heard that once someone does and then quits, their senses of taste and smell improve considerably. I'm curious if that has that been your experience? Are there any other beneficial changes you've noticed?

Blue_Roses

(13,140 posts)
5. Awesome! Way to go!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:35 AM
19 hrs ago

While I've never been a smoker, I can see how hard it is to give up. My dad smoked for years and finally gave it up, but he still was diagnosed with emphysema. He lived 20 years after being diagnosed, but the damage had been done. Still, quitting, gave him more time to be around for us!!

I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you!!

Bengus81

(7,317 posts)
31. Similar story here. My dad stopped smoking after about 50 years in 1990 and lived another 19 years.....
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:00 PM
18 hrs ago

Like you say...the damage is done none the less. He ended up with lung cancer that metastasized to his spine but he lived to be almost 85. Him stopping added at least 10 years to his life.

usaf-vet

(6,736 posts)
38. Two points about smoking. The first has always generated an unanswered question in my mind. The second was my.......
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:39 PM
17 hrs ago

.... the story of quitting.

Point one...Question: Where and when did you start smoking? I can tell you the exact day, almost to the hour: October 25-26, 1965, sometime (sunrise) on the early morning of my first full day in USAF boot camp. A bunch of strangers stood outside what turned out to be a WW II two-floor military barracks. Where our new "angry" drill sergeant is asking who would like to be on the first floor? A bunch of hands went up. Not mine (I remembered the warning I heard from my dad and uncles NEVER VOLUNTEER). The DI then said you "idiots" are on the second floor. The next question was, who smokes? Up went the hands. The DI then said, "Idiots," get two 15-minute smoke breaks a day OUTSIDE; the rest stay in the barracks and polish boots, etc. During the first break that day, I was outside getting ready to light up my first-ever cigarette.
So the question how many smokers or former smokers start smoking during military boot camp? I think it will be lots.

Point two... I also remember the exact day I stopped smoking and never looked back. April 21, 1973. My son was born that day; he is now 51 years old. I'm now 77 and ticking, so I'm guessing it was a great time to quit.

canetoad

(17,969 posts)
63. One event that I remember with absolute clarity
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 05:37 PM
12 hrs ago

Was, at the age of 16, doing my first 'proper' inhalation of the smoke. I was hooked from that moment.

Blue_Roses

(13,140 posts)
74. My dad was in the Army during
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 05:17 AM
1 hr ago

WWII and he often said that they all smoked. He said it helped them survive. I can understand that.

soldierant

(7,729 posts)
72. I'm closing in on fifty years smoke free
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:14 PM
7 hrs ago

(I'm only 2 years short of that now) and that might be the cse if i didn't have other respiratory allergies. Unfortunately, I do, and I have no idea to what extent smoking may have intensified them or even caused some of them.

Bernardo de La Paz

(50,505 posts)
75. You are a great role model on this! My mother quit smoking in her 40s and died in her 90s.
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 05:28 AM
49 min ago

My father quit smoking in his 40s and died over 80.

OldSWODog

(64 posts)
8. congratz
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:49 AM
19 hrs ago

coming up on three years now...still addicted to nicotene (pieces of lozenges) but still not smoking...whatever works!...keep up the good fight, bluescribbler...cheers, OSD

littlemissmartypants

(24,695 posts)
9. Well done...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:53 AM
19 hrs ago

Ariel, Chantix, Susan's love and YOU, bluescribbler! Those are great accomplishments all around. It's so wonderful to be loved and loveable.

Stay encouraged.





❤️

yellerpup

(12,262 posts)
10. Good work!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:54 AM
19 hrs ago

You will not be sorry you made this decision. I did after 50 years and I couldn't be happier.

surfered

(2,308 posts)
11. Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:58 AM
19 hrs ago

But finally quit on my 40th birthday. I feel so much better and cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

Bernardo de La Paz

(50,505 posts)
17. I have read most successful quitters failed at least once before. Anyone can quit
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:23 AM
18 hrs ago

Try all the methods! If none work at the first try, pick the one you think you will be most likely and then resolve to make it work this time. Prepare by convincing yourself emotionally that you have really decided to really quit.

Then quit that way.

Anyone can quit by screwing down enough resolve and then doing it by method of choice. Paraphrasing Obama: "Yes you can!"

LittleGirl

(8,368 posts)
15. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:12 AM
19 hrs ago

I struggle daily with the nicotine withdrawals. I give in to them sometimes but regret it immediately. I cannot control my addiction to nicotine and the joy I had in taking a break to have a smoke. I smoked for over 35 years non stop but I quit again last week.

Native

(6,180 posts)
42. I lost count of the number of times I tried to quit and the number of methods...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:47 PM
17 hrs ago

I even tried hypnotism, and I think I took every stop smoking class that was offered where I lived or worked. It wasn't until they came out with patches that I finally achieved my goal. This was over 30 years ago, and if if it weren't for the patches, I'd probably still be smoking today. I never liked smoking, never got any enjoyment out of it, but I couldn't stop.

LittleGirl

(8,368 posts)
56. The smell! That's what keeps me away
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 04:24 PM
13 hrs ago

I never knew how smoker’s smell is in everything you own until I quit.
I have a bionic sense of smell despite my history. It repels me most of all.

2naSalit

(91,506 posts)
16. Congratulations!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:18 AM
19 hrs ago

You've done yourself and your health a great service by making that decision!

For me it's been 42 years.

Trueblue Texan

(2,820 posts)
21. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:28 AM
18 hrs ago

I KNOW what a big deal it is! I quit 35 years ago and to this day, it was one of the hardest things I ever did. The 2nd year is easier, but temptations still nag even after a decade...but if you made it through the first year, and you remain committed, you'll do fine. Just don't let the addiction sneak up on you and convince you just one cig won't hurt. I still dream of smoking every now and then, but that first year was full of those kinds of dreams.

bluescribbler

(2,231 posts)
30. For the record, I do not claim to have quit smoking.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:53 AM
18 hrs ago

I say that I am not smoking. I have "quit" before, only to succumb to temptation. I simply don't trust myself to remain smoke-free without determined effort to decide not to smoke. Hell, I didn't even smoke a cigar when my favorite team won the NBA title last spring.

peggysue2

(11,377 posts)
22. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:32 AM
18 hrs ago

Your lungs and overall health will thank you. As for the cravings? They last for awhile but slowly fade.

Quitting is hard but in the end? So worth it.

I remember how stinky cigarette smoke smelled after I quit. I'd never noticed that before. But wow, we're talking gag city particularly if you're inside with dedicated smokers. The odor is nasty and lingers on clothing, hair, everything. Who knew?

Best wishes.

surfered

(2,308 posts)
24. Congratulations! I tried quitting once or twice,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:41 AM
18 hrs ago

But finally quit on my 40th birthday. I feel so much better and cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

wysimdnwyg

(2,244 posts)
25. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:43 AM
18 hrs ago

Smoked for 12 years (plus six where I “dabbled), been quit for 24. I still get the urge for the physical parts, but it’s easy to say no once I smell it on someone else.

murielm99

(31,329 posts)
26. Good for you!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:45 AM
18 hrs ago

I quit a little over three years ago. I made many attempts. The longest was ten months.

I am over the hump now. There are occasional temptations, but I resist them. You will resist them, too.

Keep checking in with us!

judesedit

(4,503 posts)
29. Congrats! Stay determined. Best thing you could do for your health and wallet
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:50 AM
18 hrs ago

I quit June 1st, 1980. 10 am I had my last cigarette. Didn't take long to feel 15 years younger. Black licorice helped take the edge off. Kind of tastes like nicotine lol.

Hang in there. You're worth it. 👏👍

Bengus81

(7,317 posts)
32. CONGRATS!! Question for baby boomers...How many of you NEVER smoked because of your parents smoking?
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:03 PM
18 hrs ago

Myself,my brother and seven cousins...ALL of us never smoked a day in our lives because our parents did all the smoking for us. I was born in 1953. The BULLSHIT and LIES perpetrated in ads by those cigarette companies (in the 30's---60's) in my parents days were criminal.

TBF

(33,648 posts)
37. I'm Gen X and had no desire because my mother
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:33 PM
17 hrs ago

was such a heavy smoker. In the end she got COPD, and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Not that there aren't other vices - alcohol, even too much sugar, etc. can be nearly as bad for your health. And I agree on the lies, marketing, trade groups. My mother had this idea that if smoking was so unsafe the government wouldn't allow it. I think by the time she aged and got more ill she understood the deception.

JT45242

(2,758 posts)
33. Congrats...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:12 PM
18 hrs ago

My mom quit like that when the price of cigarettes went up. She then put the money she had been spending on cigarettes into a fund to fix stuff up on her house...new appliances, deck, stuff like that. She did that for the last 15 years of her life.

Hope you can keep it up.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,063 posts)
36. Congrats.
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:32 PM
17 hrs ago

I quit tobacco (excepting the very rare cigar) about ten years ago. I will say one thing that I always remember a good friend telling me when I complimented him on being smoke free for five years. He smiled and nodded. A friend then said, "Do you ever want one?"

My friend grabbed the table edges and leaned right in towards the other person's face and savagely whispered, "Every. Fucking. Day."

Stay strong. I am pretty much over it now and don't even want one when I am having a drink, which was when I used to go full 'chimney'. Good on you for stopping.

a kennedy

(31,714 posts)
40. Good for you, and continued success......I quit 5-2-2005. Was gonna be retiring in 2006
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:44 PM
17 hrs ago

and I didn’t want to waste my retirement $$$ on smokes……so I quit. Hardest thing I ever did. I had Wellbutrin to help me, and I swear if I didn’t have that I wouldn’t have been able to quit. So my smokeless friend, welcome to the smoke free world.

BlueKentuckyGirl

(417 posts)
41. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:46 PM
17 hrs ago

I quit smoking 38 years ago from an 18 year addiction. It was probably the hardest thing I ever did.

Figarosmom

(1,679 posts)
44. 15 years
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:52 PM
17 hrs ago

And I did it pretty much by myself. But it was only because I had a really bad
bought of flu for a couple weeks where I couldn't smoke and the had no wish to. So when I got better I just never bought any more. Congrats on your achievement and take the credit. I've known people with all the help who still didn't quit. So fortitude and desire is the biggest part of making it.

pandr32

(12,042 posts)
45. Good for you!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 12:54 PM
17 hrs ago

I quit when I found I was pregnant with my first child. I was surprised how it wove into my dreams sometimes. I would dream I succumbed to the lure and lit a cigarette, was disgusted with myself, and then woke up only to be relieved it had all been a dream.
May you continue to be a none smoker!

bluescribbler

(2,231 posts)
58. Dreams!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 04:36 PM
13 hrs ago

I used to dream that I'd lost a lit cigarette in bed. And I never smoked in bed. I never even smoked in the bedroom.

rurallib

(63,055 posts)
46. That is one BIG Step! Keep it up. Now - two words DEEP BREATHS!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 01:13 PM
17 hrs ago

When I quit we didn't have anything to salve the cravings.
A guy on a radio show said about 10 deep breaths when you have a craving and the craving goes away. Worked for me!

And you can do them anywhere, anytime. They can't stop you from breathing.

Keep us informed and Congratulations!

piddyprints

(14,786 posts)
49. Congratulations!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 02:18 PM
15 hrs ago

This means a lot to me personally since my brother died from lung cancer in 2009, just 4 months after I helped him quit. He would be so happy and proud of you. His little kitty, now 21 years old, is sitting on my lap watching me type this.

It's such a victory to quit! Keep up the good work! Post every anniversary, even half and quarter years!

C OH Dem

(35 posts)
50. I quit 42 years ago,
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 02:29 PM
15 hrs ago

I now cannot stand the smell of cigarettes but the smell of a good cigar have almost made me slip!

applegrove

(122,214 posts)
51. Chantix worked for me too. I thank my older brother
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 02:33 PM
15 hrs ago

for in a non judgemental way telling me it was time to quit as I hit 40. I remembered that when I quit at 43. I owe him big time.

senseandsensibility

(19,994 posts)
53. Congrats!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 04:00 PM
14 hrs ago

What health benefits have you noticed from not smoking? I'm not and have never been a smoker, but I did drink socially until about 3 years ago. I thought I would see a lot of health benefits, but I didn't. Even so, I have maintained it because I know in the long run it's for the best.

canetoad

(17,969 posts)
62. Well done bluescribbler
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 05:33 PM
12 hrs ago

For me it was October 2020 but I didn't note the date so it's four years ago this month. After fifty years of being a slave to nicotine, I can say it's truly over.

My sincere and hearty congratulations on this feat. You will never look back.

Tikki

(14,759 posts)
70. Congratulations...
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 08:24 PM
9 hrs ago

I availed for myself of every feature that was set up to help me quit.

Higher priced cigarettes, no places to smoke in public, no more lectures
from my Doctor, my two grandchildren never remembering
me as a smoker, my husband ecstatically happy, never smoking in the car or house....
I could go on and on.
I quit 20 years ago.
The days go on, on, on..you just don't smoke... you are a non-smoker.
Works for me...works for you.

Tikki

calimary

(83,761 posts)
76. That's Absolutely TERRIFIC!!!
Thu Oct 17, 2024, 05:47 AM
30 min ago

True, you had help(ers), but you were the one in the driver’s seat. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

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